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The Guest's Own Lamp: Rising to Receive from One's Rebbe

“A guest is obligated in the Chanukah lamp.” Why should a guest be any different from anyone else? And why must a person greet his Rebbe on Shabbos and Yom Tov in particular, rather than at any other time?

Name a tzaddik: tap for who he wasTitle a sefer

Shabbos 23a
אָמַר רַב שֵׁשֶׁת: אַכְסְנַאי חַיָּיב בְּנֵר חֲנוּכָּה. אָמַר רַבִּי זֵירָא: מֵרֵישׁ כִּי הֲוֵינָא בֵּי רַב, מִשְׁתַּתַּפְנָא בִּפְרִיטֵי בַּהֲדֵי אוּשְׁפִּיזָא. בָּתַר דִּנְסַבִי אִיתְּתָא, אֲמִינָא: הַשְׁתָּא וַדַּאי לָא צְרִיכְנָא, דְּקָא מַדְלְקִי עֲלַי בְּגוֹ בֵּיתַאי.
Rav Sheshes said: A guest is obligated in the Chanukah lamp. R' Zeira said: At first, when I was in the yeshivah, I would join with my innkeeper by contributing a few coins. After I married, I said: Now I certainly do not need to, for they light on my behalf in my home.
1“A guest is obligated in the Chanukah lamp.” My holy ancestor, zt"l, explains in his sefer that these words hint at a lesson in avodas Hashem, the service of Hashem.1 Our avodah is a kind of lamp, as the verse says, “A mitzvah is a lamp, and Torah is light.”2 In such service, a disciple is like a “guest,” for he is not yet settled in it. Even so, he must not rely on his Rebbe's service alone. He too is obligated in the Chanukah lamp himself: he must serve and raise himself up on his own in Torah and avodah. His Rebbe should be only a help and a support to him: once he has done his own work, he can receive help from his Rebbe. This is like what , zt"l, another of my holy ancestors, taught on the verse “You shall surely help along with him,” said of helping with a donkey that has fallen under its load.3 The law is that if the owner says, “Since the mitzvah is upon you, load it yourself,” the passerby is exempt from loading it alone. He is obligated only when the owner helps him.4 So it is with a disciple and his Rebbe: a Rebbe helps his disciple only when the disciple also does his own work. Those are the holy words of the .
אַכְסְנַאי חַיָּיב בְּנֵר חֲנוּכָּה (שבת כג, א). אִיתָא בְּתוֹלְדוֹת אָדָם (ליל ח׳ דחנוכה ד״ה אמרו וד״ה או יאמר) מכ״ק זְקֵנִי זצללה״ה, שֶׁמְּרוּמָּז בָּזֶה שֶׁבְּעִנְיְינֵי עֲבוֹדַת ה׳ שֶׁהֵם בְּחִינַת ׳נֵר׳ כָּאָמוּר ״נֵר מִצְוָוה וְתוֹרָה אוֹר״, לֹא יִסְמוֹךְ בָּהֶם הַתַּלְמִיד שֶׁהוּא בִּבְחִינַת אַכְסְנַאי שֶׁאֵינוֹ קָבוּעַ בַּעֲבוֹדַת ה׳, רַק עַל עֲבוֹדַת רַבּוֹ, אֶלָּא גַּם הוּא מְחוּיָּב בְּעַצְמוֹ בְּנֵר חֲנוּכָּה, דְּהַיְינוּ לַעֲבוֹד וּלְהִתְעַלּוֹת בְּעַצְמוֹ בַּתּוֹרָה וַעֲבוֹדָה, וְרַבּוֹ יִהְיֶה לוֹ רַק לְעֵזֶר וּלְסַעַד, שֶׁאַחֲרֵי שֶׁעָשָׂה עֲבוֹדָתוֹ בְּעַצְמוֹ יוּכַל לְקַבֵּל עֲזָרָה מֵרַבּוֹ. וּכְמוֹ שֶׁאָמַר זְקֵנִי הַיְּהוּדִי הַקָּדוֹשׁ זצללה״ה, עַל הַכָּתוּב ״עָזוֹב תַּעֲזוֹב עִמּוֹ״ (שמות כג, ה) שֶׁהַדִּין הוּא (בבא מציעא לב, א) שֶׁבְּאִם הַבְּעָלִים אוֹמֵר הוֹאִיל וְהַמִּצְוָוה עָלֶיךָ טְעוֹן בְּעַצְמְךָ, פָּטוּר מִלִּטְעוֹן בְּעַצְמוֹ, וְאֵינוֹ חַיָּיב אֶלָּא כַּאֲשֶׁר בַּעַל הַבַּיִת עוֹזְרוֹ, וּכְמוֹ כֵּן הוּא בְּתַלְמִיד וְרַב, שֶׁהָרַב עוֹזֵר לַתַּלְמִיד רַק כְּשֶׁהַתַּלְמִיד עוֹבֵד גַּם בְּעַצְמוֹ, עכד״ק.
  1. Toldos Adam, the eighth night of Chanukah, s.v. Amru and s.v. O yomar. R' Yehoshua of Ostrova, author of Toldos Adam, father-in-law of the first Biala Rebbe. ↩
  2. Mishlei 6:23. ↩
  3. Shemos 23:5. The verse speaks of the donkey of someone who hates you, lying under its burden. ↩
  4. Bava Metzia 32a. The sefer has te'on, “load”; the Gemara's wording is perok, “unload.” Either way, if the owner sits aside and leaves the whole task to the passerby, the passerby is exempt. ↩
In shortA disciple is only a “guest” in avodah, the Toldos Adam teaches, yet must kindle his own lamp; his Rebbe helps only one who strives.
2This lets us understand what Chazal said: “A person is obligated to greet his Rebbe on the festival and on Shabbos.”5 But why are these times in particular suited to greeting one's Rebbe? The answer lies in a law of the Mishnah. Even an am ha'aretz, an unlearned man who is not trusted about tithes, is afraid to lie on Shabbos, and so on Shabbos he is believed about maaser, the tithe.6 This shows that the special power of Shabbos and Yom Tov can bestow the holiness of the day upon a person. It can even remove from him the kelipos, the husks of impurity, and everything external, so that the trait of falsehood leaves him and only the trait of truth remains. On these days, then, a person's mind becomes clear and clean. That is why he is obligated to greet his Rebbe on them, for then his Rebbe can influence him for good. He must come to his Rebbe and receive holy influence in Torah and avodah.
וּבָזֶה יוּבָן מַה שֶׁאָמְרוּ רז״ל (ראש השנה טז, ב. רמב״ן שמות כ, ח. רד״ק מלכים ב ד, כג. ריטב״א סוכה כז, ב) חַיָּיב אָדָם לְהַקְבִּיל פְּנֵי רַבּוֹ בָּרֶגֶל וּבְשַׁבָּת. וְיֵשׁ לְהָבִין טַעַם הַדָּבָר, מַדּוּעַ דַּוְקָא זְמַנִּים אֵלּוּ מְסוּגָּלִים וּמוּכְשָׁרִים לְקַבָּלַת פְּנֵי רַבּוֹ. אֶלָּא הִנֵּה מָצִינוּ בַּמִּשְׁנָה (דמאי פ״ד מ״א ובירושלמי שם) שֶׁאֲפִילּוּ עַם הָאָרֶץ יָרֵא לְשַׁקֵּר בְּשַׁבָּת, וְלָכֵן נֶאֱמָן עַל הַמַּעֲשֵׂר בְּשַׁבָּת. וְהַנִּרְאֶה מִזֶּה, שֶׁבְּכֹחַ סְגוּלַּת שַׁבָּת וְיוֹם טוֹב לְהַשְׁפִּיעַ עַל הָאָדָם קְדוּשַּׁת הַיּוֹם, עַד כְּדֵי כָּךְ שֶׁמְּסוּגָּלִים לְהָסִיר הַקְּלִיפּוֹת וְהַחִיצוֹנִיּוֹת מִן הָאָדָם, וְלָכֵן נִפְרַד מִמֶּנּוּ מִידַּת שֶׁקֶר וְנִשְׁאַר בּוֹ רַק מִידַּת אֱמֶת. וְכֵיוָן שֶׁבַּיָּמִים הַלָּלוּ נַעֲשֶׂה דַּעַת הָאָדָם מְבוֹרָר וְנָקִי, לָכֵן חַיָּיב לְהַקְבִּיל בָּהֶם פְּנֵי רַבּוֹ, שֶׁאָז הָרַב יָכוֹל לְהַשְׁפִּיעַ עָלָיו לְטוֹבָה, וְצָרִיךְ לָבוֹא לְרַבּוֹ וּלְקַבֵּל הַשְׁפָּעוֹת קְדוֹשׁוֹת בַּתּוֹרָה וַעֲבוֹדָה.
  1. Rosh Hashanah 16b; Ramban on Shemos 20:8; Radak on Melachim II 4:23; Ritva on Sukkah 27b. ↩
  2. Mishnah Demai 4:1; Yerushalmi there. ↩
In shortShabbos and Yom Tov strip away falsehood even from an am ha'aretz; with his mind made clear, a person can receive his Rebbe's influence.
3So it is with the days of Chanukah as well. Chazal said of them: “They established them and made them festive days with Hallel and thanksgiving.”7 Why the word keva'um, “they established them”? The meaning is that a lasting quality lies hidden in these days. Chazal set it into their holiness, so that the days would be able to influence the hearts of Israel and light them up to thank and praise Hashem. This time is therefore especially suited for a person to raise himself up in Torah and avodah. And so it is fitting to stay close to one's Rebbe during these days. For, as we saw with the guest's Chanukah lamp, it is when a person raises himself up on his own that he can receive influence from his Rebbe in his avodah.
וּכְמוֹ כֵּן הוּא בִּימֵי חֲנוּכָּה. שֶׁאָמְרוּ חז״ל (שבת כא, ב) קְבָעוּם וַעֲשָׂאוּם יָמִים טוֹבִים בְּהַלֵּל וְהוֹדָאָה, וּמַהוּ הַלָּשׁוֹן ׳קְבָעוּם׳, אַךְ הַכַּוָּונָה הִיא שֶׁבְּיָמִים אֵלּוּ סָפוּן קְבִיעוּת אֲשֶׁר חז״ל קָבְעוּ וְהִטְבִּיעוּ בִּקְדוּשַּׁת יָמִים אֵלּוּ, לִהְיוֹת מְסוּגָּלִים לְהַשְׁפִּיעַ וּלְהָאִיר לִבָּם שֶׁל יִשְׂרָאֵל לְהוֹדוֹת וּלְהַלֵּל לַה׳, עַל כֵּן זֶה הַזְּמַן מְסוּגָּל בְּיוֹתֵר לְהִתְעַלּוֹת בְּעַצְמוֹ בַּתּוֹרָה וּבַעֲבוֹדָה, הִלְכָּךְ מֵהָרָאוּי שֶׁיִּהְיֶה שָׁרוּי בִּמְחִיצַת רַבּוֹ בְּיָמִים אֵלּוּ, כְּמוֹ שֶׁנִּתְבָּאֵר שֶׁכַּאֲשֶׁר מִתְעַלֶּה הָאָדָם בְּעַצְמוֹ, דַּיְיקָא אָז יָכוֹל לְקַבֵּל מֵרַבּוֹ הַשְׁפָּעוֹת בַּעֲבוֹדָתוֹ.
  1. Shabbos 21b. ↩
In shortChazal “established” in Chanukah a lasting power to light up hearts, so these days suit both rising on one's own and staying near one's Rebbe.
4This is what Chazal meant by “A guest is obligated in the Chanukah lamp.” They were hinting that the days of Chanukah are a time suited to being with one's Rebbe, to rise in Torah and avodah. [The Chiddushei Maharatza asks on this Gemara: what is new in saying that a guest is obligated? How is he different from the rest of Israel? The Ran writes that a guest is obligated even though he has no house, so that we should not think the law of the Chanukah lamp is like the law of mezuzah, from which anyone without a house is exempt.8 But the Torah is expounded in four ways: pshat, the plain meaning; remez, allusion; drush, homiletic exposition; and sod, the hidden meaning. The inner meaning hints that the light of Chanukah will shine upon a guest when he is with his Rebbe. And he too must light and help bring this about, as we saw in the .] Perhaps this is also 's intent when he explains achsenai as “a guest.”9 He is hinting that every person must see himself in this world as a guest, who must keep raising himself higher. And these days are suited to this.
וְזֶה מַה שֶׁאָמְרוּ אַכְסְנַאי חַיָּיב בְּנֵר חֲנוּכָּה, לְרַמֵּז שֶׁבִּימֵי הַחֲנוּכָּה אָז הוּא זְמַן מְסוּגָּל לִהְיוֹת עִם רַבּוֹ לַעֲלוֹת בַּתּוֹרָה וַעֲבוֹדָה. [דְּעַיֵּין בְּחִידּוּשֵׁי מהרצ״א דְּהִקְשָׁה דְּמַה הַחִידּוּשׁ דְּחַיָּיב דְּמַאי שְׁנָא מִכָּל יִשְׂרָאֵל, ובר״נ (י, א בדפי הרי״ף) כָּתַב, אוֹרֵחַ אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁאֵין לוֹ בַּיִת, דְּלָא תֵּימָא דִּין נֵר חֲנוּכָּה כְּדִין מְזוּזָה דְּכָל מִי שֶׁאֵין לוֹ בַּיִת פָּטוּר מִן הַמְּזוּזָה. אַךְ הַתּוֹרָה נִדְרֶשֶׁת בְּדֶרֶךְ פְּשָׁט רֶמֶז דְּרוּשׁ סוֹד, וְהַפֵּירוּשׁ הַפְּנִימִי בָּא לְרַמֵּז שֶׁאוֹר הַחֲנוּכָּה יִתְגַּלֶּה עָלָיו בִּהְיוֹתוֹ אֵצֶל רַבּוֹ, וְצָרִיךְ גַּם הוּא לְהַדְלִיק וּלְסַיֵּיעַ בָּזֶה כַּנִּזְכָּר לְעֵיל מֵהַתּוֹלְדוֹת אָדָם]. וְזֶה אוּלַי כַּוָּונַת רש״י הַקָּדוֹשׁ שֶׁמְּפָרֵשׁ אַכְסְנַאי אוֹרֵחַ, דְּבָא לְרַמֵּז שֶׁכָּל אָדָם צָרִיךְ לִרְאוֹת אֶת עַצְמוֹ בָּעוֹלָם הַזֶּה כְּמוֹ אוֹרֵחַ, וּצְרִיכִים לְהִתְעַלּוֹת וּלְהִתְרוֹמֵם, וְהַיָּמִים הָאֵלֶּה מְסוּגָּלִים לָזֶה.
  1. Ran on the Rif, Shabbos 10a. ↩
  2. Rashi on Shabbos 23a. ↩

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In shortOn Chanukah a guest should be with his Rebbe and kindle his own lamp; in this world everyone is a guest who must keep rising.
5May Hashem grant that we be privileged to rise higher and higher in the merit of these days, and to see the Menorah kindled in the rebuilt Beis HaMikdash. Amen.
יִתֵּן ה׳ שֶׁנִּזְכֶּה לַעֲלוֹת מַעְלָה מַעְלָה בִּזְכוּת יָמִים אֵלּוּ, וְנִזְכֶּה לִרְאוֹת הַדְלָקַת הַמְּנוֹרָה בְּבִנְיַן הַמִּקְדָּשׁ, אָמֵן:
In shortMay we rise ever higher through these days and see the Menorah kindled in the rebuilt Beis HaMikdash.
The maamar as a whole

The Rebbe begins with the Toldos Adam: in avodah a disciple is only a “guest,” yet he must kindle his own lamp, and his Rebbe can help him only once he works himself, like the Yid HaKadosh’s reading of “help along with him.” He then asks why one greets one’s Rebbe on Shabbos and Yom Tov. Even an am ha’aretz fears to lie on Shabbos: the day’s holiness strips away falsehood and clears the mind, so then the Rebbe can influence him. Chanukah too, whose days Chazal “established” with a lasting power to light up hearts, is a time to rise on one’s own and stay near one’s Rebbe; that is the hint in “a guest is obligated.” And as Rashi’s “guest” suggests, everyone is a guest in this world who must keep rising.

Takeaway

A Rebbe's light helps only the one who is already kindling his own, just as the owner must lift the load “with” the passerby who helps him. Chazal set into the days of Chanukah a lasting power to light up our hearts, so they are a time to rise on our own and to draw close to our Rebbe. Each of us is only a guest in this world, and these days call on us to keep rising.

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