Standing Apart: The Merit That Brings Redemption
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Bereishis 32:12
הַצִּילֵנִי נָא מִיַּד אָחִי מִיַּד עֵשָׂו כִּי־יָרֵא אָנֹכִי אֹתוֹ פֶּן־יָבוֹא וְהִכַּנִי אֵם עַל־בָּנִים
Rescue me, please, from the hand of my brother, from the hand of Esav, for I fear him, lest he come and strike me, mother and children alike.
1“Rescue me, please, from the hand of my brother, from the hand of Esav.”1 The wording raises two questions. First, why does Yaakov say “from the hand of my brother, from the hand of Esav”? The phrase seems redundant: he should have said “from the hand of Esav my brother.” The Ohr HaChaim, the Torah commentary of R' Chaim ibn Attar, raises a similar question. Second, what does the expression “from the hand of” mean here? Yaakov should have said simply, “Rescue me from my brother Esav.”
הַצִּילֵנִי נָא מִיַּד אָחִי מִיַּד עֵשָׂו (לב, יב). יֵשׁ לְדַקְדֵּק, מַהוּ ׳מִיַּד אָחִי מִיַּד עֵשָׂו׳ דְּלִכְאוֹרָה זֶהוּ שְׂפַת יֶתֶר, וְהָיָה לוֹ לוֹמַר ׳מִיַּד עֵשָׂו אָחִי׳ (וכיוצא בזה הקשה באור החיים). עוֹד יֵשׁ לְהָבִין, מַה מַשְׁמָעוּת הַלָּשׁוֹן ׳מִיַּד׳, וְהָיָה לוֹ לוֹמַר ׳הַצִּילֵנִי מֵאָחִי עֵשָׂו׳.
- Bereishis 32:12. ↩
In shortWhy does Yaakov double “from the hand of my brother, from the hand of Esav,” and what does “from the hand of” add?
2It seems right to explain the verse through a teaching of the Midrash: “‘Rescue me, please, from the hand of my brother, from the hand of Esav’: rescue my children in the future from the hand of his grandchildren [Esav's], who will come against them by the power of Esav.”2
וְנִרְאֶה לְפָרֵשׁ הַכָּתוּב, עַל פִּי מַה דְּאִיתָא בַּמִּדְרָשׁ (בראשית רבה עו, ה), הַצִּילֵנִי נָא מִיַּד אָחִי מִיַּד עֵשָׂו, הַצֵּל אֶת בָּנַי לֶעָתִיד לָבֹא מִיַּד בְּנֵי בָּנָיו [שֶׁל עֵשָׂו], שֶׁבָּאוּ עֲלֵיהֶם מִכּוֹחוֹ שֶׁל עֵשָׂו.
- Bereishis Rabbah 76:5; in standard editions 76:6. ↩
In shortAccording to the Midrash, Yaakov was also praying for his descendants, that they be rescued in the future from Esav's descendants.
3Perhaps we can explain it this way. We know that in the time of exile Israel is, Heaven forbid, on a very low level. By what merit, then, will it be redeemed? Yet with all its strength it fences itself off to keep apart from the ways of the nations, and it clings to the tradition of its fathers. That is the merit that stands Israel in good stead in the darkness of exile, even if, Heaven forbid, it sinks very low and its merits dwindle. Through it Israel will earn the redemption.
וְאֶפְשָׁר לוֹמַר בְּדֶרֶךְ זֶה, דְּהִנֵּה יָדוּעַ כִּי בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל בִּזְמַן הַגָּלוּת עוֹמְדִים ח״ו בְּדַרְגָּה נְמוּכָה בְּיוֹתֵר, וְאִם כֵּן בְּאֵיזֶה זְכוּת יִזְכּוּ לִיגָּאֵל, אוּלָם מַה שֶׁבְּכָל כּוֹחָם גּוֹדְרִים אֶת עַצְמָם לִיבָּדֵל מִדַּרְכֵי הַגּוֹיִים, וּדְבֵקִים בְּמָסוֹרֶת אֲבוֹתָם, זֹאת הַזְּכוּת עוֹמֶדֶת לָהֶם לְיִשְׂרָאֵל בְּחֶשְׁכַת הַגָּלוּת, אַף אִם ח״ו יִדַּלּוּ מְאֹד וְיִתְמַעֲטוּ זְכוּיוֹתֵיהֶם, וְעַל יְדֵי זֶה יִזְכּוּ לִגְאוּלָּה.
In shortHowever low Israel sinks in exile, keeping apart from the nations and clinging to its fathers' tradition is the merit that will redeem it.
4Through the power of Yaakov Avinu's prayer, “Rescue me, please …,” this merit protects Israel. As the Midrash we cited teaches, Yaakov was praying here for the generations to come. He looked ahead to the lowly generations and saw how far they would sink, so he pleaded fervently before the Holy One, blessed be He: “Rescue me, please.” As Chazal said, “Na, ‘please,’ is always an expression of request.”3 He was begging Hashem to rescue Israel and redeem it from the exile. This answers our first question, why he doubled his words, “from the hand of my brother, from the hand of Esav.” With “from the hand of my brother” he asked that he himself be rescued at that time; with “from the hand of Esav” he asked that the generations to come be rescued.
וְהִנֵּה זְכוּת זוֹ עוֹמֶדֶת לְיִשְׂרָאֵל מִכֹּחַ תְּפִלַּת יַעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ ע״ה ״הַצִּילֵנִי נָא״ וְגוֹ׳, וּכְדִבְרֵי הַמִּדְרָשׁ הַנִּזְכָּרִים, שֶׁיַּעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ ע״ה הִתְפַּלֵּל בָּזֶה עַל הַדּוֹרוֹת הַבָּאִים, וְהַיְינוּ שֶׁצָּפָה וְהִבִּיט עַל הַדּוֹרוֹת הַנְּמוּכִים, וְרָאָה אֵיךְ יִדַּלּוּ מְאֹד, עַל כֵּן בִּיקֵּשׁ וְהִתְחַנֵּן מְאֹד לִפְנֵי הקב״ה ׳הַצִּילֵנִי נָא׳, וּכְמַאֲמַר חז״ל (ברכות ט, א) אֵין ׳נָא׳ אֶלָּא לְשׁוֹן בַּקָּשָׁה, שֶׁיַּצִּיל אֶת בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל וְיִגְאַל אוֹתָם מִן הַגָּלוּת. וּבָזֶה יוּבָן מַה שֶׁכָּפַל וְאָמַר ׳מִיַּד אָחִי מִיַּד עֵשָׂו׳, דִּבְאָמְרוֹ ׳מִיַּד אָחִי׳ בִּיקֵּשׁ עַל הַצָּלַת יַעֲקֹב עַצְמוֹ בִּשְׁעָתוֹ, וּבְאָמְרוֹ ׳מִיַּד עֵשָׂו׳ בִּיקֵּשׁ עַל הַצָּלַת הַדּוֹרוֹת הַבָּאִים.
- Berachos 9a. ↩
In shortYaakov foresaw the low generations and pleaded for them: “my brother” asks for his own rescue, “Esav” for his descendants'.
5As for our second question, we can explain that the word miyad, “from the hand of,” hints at this same theme. Miyad means “from the domain of,” as in the verse “and he took all his land from his hand,”4 that is, from his domain. So when Yaakov Avinu asked the Holy One, blessed be He, to rescue his descendants “from the hand” of Esav, he meant that Hashem should redeem them and take them out of the domain of the nations of the world. They were not to fall under the nations' power. For this is the very thing for which they are ready to give their lives in exile: not to mingle with the nations. With this we can also explain what the Midrash we cited means by “Rescue my children in the future …”: Yaakov Avinu prayed that the generations to come would be rescued from the hand and the domain of Esav's descendants. They would be rescued in the merit of this very thing, that they fence themselves off from the domain of the nations of the world.
וְיֵשׁ לְפָרֵשׁ שֶׁרָמַז עִנְיָן זֶה בְּתֵיבַת ׳מִיַּד׳, שֶׁהוּא עִנְיַן ׳רְשׁוּת׳, כָּעִנְיָן שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (במדבר כא, כו) ״וַיִּקַּח אֶת כָּל אַרְצוֹ מִיָּדוֹ״, דְּהַיְינוּ מֵרְשׁוּתוֹ. וְהוּא שֶׁבִּיקֵּשׁ יַעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ ע״ה מהקב״ה לְהַצִּילָם ׳מִיַּד׳ עֵשָׂו, דְּהַיְינוּ שֶׁיִּגְאַל אוֹתָם וְיִקָּחֵם מֵרְשׁוּת אוּמּוֹת הָעוֹלָם שֶׁלֹּא יִפְּלוּ בְּתוֹכָהּ, כִּי זֶה גּוּפָא הוּא הַדָּבָר אֲשֶׁר עַל זֶה מוֹסְרִים נַפְשָׁם בַּגָּלוּת, שֶׁלֹּא לְהִתְעָרֵב בָּהֶם. וּבָזֶה גַּם יֵשׁ לְפָרֵשׁ דִּבְרֵי הַמִּדְרָשׁ הַנִּזְכָּר, ׳הַצֵּל אֶת בָּנַי לֶעָתִיד לָבוֹא׳ וְכוּ׳, שֶׁיַּעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ ע״ה הִתְפַּלֵּל עַל הַדּוֹרוֹת הַבָּאִים שֶׁיִּזְכּוּ לִינָּצֵל מִיַּד וּמֵרְשׁוּת בְּנֵי בָּנָיו שֶׁל עֵשָׂו, בִּזְכוּת זֶה גּוּפָא שֶׁגּוֹדְרִים עַצְמָם מֵרְשׁוּת אוּמּוֹת הָעוֹלָם.
- Bamidbar 21:26. ↩
In shortMiyad means “from the domain”: Yaakov asked that his children be taken out of the nations' domain, in the merit of their keeping apart.
6In the same way we can understand a teaching of the Midrash on the verse “And Yaakov was left alone.” It says: “Just as it is written of the Holy One, blessed be He, ‘And Hashem alone will be exalted,’ so too of Yaakov: ‘And Yaakov was left alone.’”5 The holy sefarim ask what connection or likeness there is between the verse “And Hashem alone will be exalted …” and “And Yaakov was left alone.” Among them are the Degel Machaneh Efraim of R' Moshe Chaim Efraim of Sudilkov and the Yismach Moshe of R' Moshe Teitelbaum. Following our approach, we may say this. Israel, which is called “Yaakov, the portion of His inheritance,”6 is “alone”: in exile it fences itself off from the ways of the nations and remains in its own hands, in its own domain. So even though it sinks very low, this merit will stand it in good stead, and through it Israel will earn the complete redemption. Then the verse will be fulfilled: “And Hashem alone will be exalted on that day.”
וּבָזֶה יוּבָן דִּבְרֵי הַמִּדְרָשׁ (בראשית רבה עז, א) עַל הַפָּסוּק (לב, כה) ״וַיִּוָּתֵר יַעֲקֹב לְבַדּוֹ״, מַה הקב״ה כָּתוּב בּוֹ (ישעיהו ב, יז) ״וְנִשְׂגַּב ה׳ לְבַדּוֹ״, אַף יַעֲקֹב ״וַיִּוָּתֵר יַעֲקֹב לְבַדּוֹ״. וְהִקְשׁוּ בַּסְּפָרִים הַקְּדוֹשִׁים (עיין בדגל מחנה אפרים, ישמח משה), מָה הַשַּׁיָּיכוּת וְדִמְיוֹן שֶׁבֵּין הַמִּקְרָאוֹת וְנִשְׂגַּב ה׳ וְגוֹ׳ לְוַיִּוָּתֵר יַעֲקֹב. אַךְ לְפִי דַּרְכֵּנוּ יֵשׁ לוֹמַר, כִּי בִּזְכוּת זֶה שֶׁבְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל הַמְּכוּנִּים ׳יַעֲקֹב׳ חֶבֶל נַחֲלָתוֹ הֵם בִּבְחִינַת ׳לְבַדּוֹ׳, דְּהַיְינוּ שֶׁגּוֹדְרִים עַצְמָם בַּגָּלוּת מִדַּרְכֵי הַגּוֹיִים, וְהֵם בְּיַד וּבִרְשׁוּת עַצְמָם, עַל כֵּן אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁיִּדַּלּוּ מְאֹד, מִכָּל מָקוֹם זְכוּת זֹאת תַּעֲמוֹד לָהֶם שֶׁעַל יָדָהּ יִזְכּוּ לִגְאוּלָּה שְׁלֵימָה, שֶׁאָז יְקוּיַּם ״וְנִשְׂגַּב ה׳ לְבַדּוֹ בַּיּוֹם הַהוּא״.
In shortLike Yaakov, Israel stands “alone,” apart from the nations, and that merit will bring the day when “Hashem alone will be exalted.”
7May the Holy One, blessed be He, help us to earn the complete redemption speedily. Amen, may it be His will.
יַעֲזוֹר הקב״ה שֶׁנִּזְכֶּה בִּמְהֵרָה לִגְאוּלָּה שְׁלֵימָה, אָמֵן כֵּן יְהִי רָצוֹן:
In shortMay Hashem help us earn the speedy and complete redemption.
Takeaway
Even when we have sunk very low in exile, one merit holds firm: keeping ourselves apart from the ways of the nations and clinging to the tradition of our fathers. Yaakov Avinu foresaw our generations and pleaded for us. When we stand “alone,” in our own domain, we earn the redemption in which Hashem alone will be exalted.
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