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Write Back, and Write at Length

From the isolation of Chevron, Rav Gershon begged his family and friends to answer him in full, for their words were water to a thirsty soul.

A teaching ofRav Avrohom Gershon Ashkenazi of Kitovהרב אברהם גרשון בן אפרים אשכנזיProfile ›

Rav Gershon wrote often to the Baal Shem Tov, to his relatives and to his friends, and asked each of them to write back at length and not to shorten their words. His soul was thirsty, he said, and their pleasant words were like cold water for a weary soul, like good news from a far-off land. He described his own life in Chevron as lonely, sitting alone in his beis medrash day after day with his small son, honored and cared for by the Sephardic sages, yet unable to find someone whose heart matched his own. His letters teach that distance makes the words of loved ones more precious and that a few warm lines can bring life to a person who is far from home.

Source: Letters of Rav Gershon of Kitov from Eretz Yisroel, in Birkas HaAretz (Baruch HaKohen Kahana), p. 62; also Avraham Yaari, Igros Eretz Yisroel, p. 277

Practical lessonWrite the longer letter

Think of someone who lives far from you or who has been alone lately, perhaps an elderly relative or a friend overseas. Today, instead of a quick message, write a real letter or leave a longer voice message. Tell them what you saw this week, a small detail from your day, and a memory you share. Do not hurry to finish. A full page can feel to someone like cold water after a long journey, and it takes you only ten quiet minutes.

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