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The King's Revenge: Blessing for the Final Generations

From the Torah ofRav Dovid Matisyohu Rabinowitzהרב דוד מתתיהו בן יחיאל יהושע רבינוביץProfile ›
Bereishis 49:28
כׇּל־אֵלֶּה שִׁבְטֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל שְׁנֵים עָשָׂר וְזֹאת אֲשֶׁר־דִּבֶּר לָהֶם אֲבִיהֶם וַיְבָרֶךְ אוֹתָם אִישׁ אֲשֶׁר כְּבִרְכָתוֹ בֵּרַךְ אֹתָם
All these are the tribes of Israel, twelve, and this is what their father spoke to them, and he blessed them; each man according to his blessing he blessed them.
1“And this is what their father spoke to them, and he blessed them; each man according to his blessing he blessed them.”1 Why does the verse use the word dibber, “spoke,” for Yaakov's blessing? It is a harsh expression, and for a blessing the soft amirah, “saying,” would surely fit better.
וְזֹאת אֲשֶׁר דִּבֶּר לָהֶם אֲבִיהֶם וַיְבָרֶךְ אוֹתָם אִישׁ אֲשֶׁר כְּבִרְכָתוֹ בֵּירַךְ אוֹתָם (מט, כח). יֵשׁ לְהָבִין מַדּוּעַ נִכְתַּב לְשׁוֹן ׳דִּיבֵּר׳ שֶׁהוּא לָשׁוֹן קָשָׁה לְגַבֵּי בִּרְכַּת יַעֲקֹב, הֲלֹא כְּלַפֵּי בְּרָכָה שַׁיָּיךְ יוֹתֵר לָשׁוֹן שֶׁל אֲמִירָה רַכָּה.
  1. Bereishis 49:28. ↩
In shortWhy does the Torah describe Yaakov's blessings with the harsh word dibber rather than the soft amirah?
2The Gemara says: “Yaakov wished to reveal to his sons the end of days, and the Shechinah departed from him. He said, ‘Perhaps, Heaven forbid, there is someone unfit among my offspring, as with Avraham, from whom Yishmael came out, and my father Yitzchak, from whom Esav came out.’ His sons said to him, ‘Hear, Yisrael, Hashem is our God, Hashem is One’: just as there is only One in your heart, so there is only One in our heart.”2 But this is puzzling. Did Yaakov Avinu not recognize that his sons were the tribes of God and perfect tzaddikim? Even about the sale of Yosef, the sefer Parashas Derachim, by R' Yehudah Rosanes, explains that the brothers judged Yosef according to Torah law, and that they acted for the sake of Heaven.3 If so, what doubt did Yaakov have that perhaps there was someone unfit among his offspring?
וּבַגְּמָרָא מַסֶּכֶת פְּסָחִים (דף נו, א) אִיתָא, בִּיקֵּשׁ יַעֲקֹב לְגַלּוֹת לְבָנָיו קֵץ הַיָּמִין וְנִסְתַּלְּקָה מִמֶּנּוּ שְׁכִינָה, אָמַר שֶׁמָּא ח״ו יֵשׁ בְּמִטָּתִי פָּסוּל, כְּאַבְרָהָם שֶׁיָּצָא מִמֶּנּוּ יִשְׁמָעֵאל, וְאָבִי יִצְחָק שֶׁיָּצָא מִמֶּנּוּ עֵשָׂו, אָמְרוּ לוֹ בָּנָיו ״שְׁמַע יִשְׂרָאֵל ה׳ אֱלוֹקֵינוּ ה׳ אֶחָד״ (דברים ו, ד), כְּשֵׁם שֶׁאֵין בְּלִבְּךָ אֶלָּא אֶחָד כָּךְ אֵין בְּלִבֵּנוּ אֶלָּא אֶחָד. וְיֵשׁ לְהָבִין, וְכִי יַעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ ע״ה לֹא הִכִּיר בְּבָנָיו שֶׁהֵם שִׁבְטֵי יָהּ וְצַדִּיקִים גְּמוּרִים, וַאֲפִילּוּ לְגַבֵּי מְכִירַת יוֹסֵף מְבוֹאָר בְּפָרָשַׁת דְּרָכִים (דרוש הא׳), שֶׁדָּנוּהוּ עַל פִּי דִּין תּוֹרָה, וְהָיָה לָהֶם בָּזֶה עִנְיָן לְשֵׁם שָׁמַיִם, אִם כֵּן מַה סָפֵק הָיָה לוֹ לְיַעֲקֹב שֶׁמָּא יֵשׁ בְּמִטָּתוֹ פָּסוּל.
  1. Pesachim 56a; Devarim 6:4. ↩
  2. Parashas Derachim, Derush 1. ↩
In shortYaakov feared someone among his offspring was unfit; how could he doubt his sons, tzaddikim who acted for Heaven's sake even in selling Yosef?
3aWe can, however, explain this through a well-known parable that we heard many times from my holy father and teacher, zt"l, in the name of the Baal Shem Tov, zt"l. It was told on the verse “Kel nekamos Hashem, God of vengeance, Hashem.”4 The question raised was this: “vengeance” belongs to the realm of judgment, so why does it stand beside the Name Kel, which stands for the attribute of mercy? It was explained with a parable. A king once set out to visit all the provinces of his kingdom, to see what each province lacked and to provide it with everything it needed. Of course, everywhere the king came they paid him great honor, until he happened to come to a remote village whose people were not used to royal manners. The village boys were playing with stones, as they always did. Even when they saw the king's chariot and his entourage, in their limited understanding they carried on as usual and kept throwing stones, until one stone struck an image of the king. At once a great uproar broke out among the king's ministers, and they sentenced the boy who had thrown the stone to death.
אָכֵן אֶפְשָׁר לְבָאֵר הָעִנְיָן, עַל פִּי הַמָּשָׁל הַיָּדוּעַ אֲשֶׁר שָׁמַעְנוּ פְּעָמִים הַרְבֵּה מֵאֵת כ״ק אאמו״ר זצללה״ה בְּשֵׁם הבעש״ט זצללה״ה (תולדות יעקב יוסף פרשת בא ד״ה על מצות), עַל מַאֲמַר הַכָּתוּב (תהלים צד, א) ״אֵל נְקָמוֹת ה׳״, וְדִקְדֵּק לָמָּה נִזְכַּר אֵצֶל ׳נְקָמוֹת׳ שֶׁהוּא בְּחִינַת דִּין, שֵׁם א״ל שֶׁהוּא מִידַּת הָרַחֲמִים. וּבֵיאֵר עַל דֶּרֶךְ מָשָׁל, לְמֶלֶךְ שֶׁפַּעַם אַחַת יָצָא לְבַקֵּר בְּכָל מְדִינוֹת מַלְכוּתוֹ לִרְאוֹת אֶת הֶחָסֵר לְכָל מְדִינָה וּלְתַקֵּן לָהֶם כָּל הַנָּחוּץ לָהֶם, וּבְוַדַּאי בְּכָל מָקוֹם שֶׁבָּא הַמֶּלֶךְ חָלְקוּ לוֹ כָּבוֹד רַב, עַד שֶׁנִּזְדַּמֵּן שֶׁבָּא לִכְפָר נִידָּח אֲשֶׁר יוֹשְׁבֶיהָ לֹא הָיוּ מוּרְגָּלִים בְּנִימוּסֵי הַמַּלְכוּת, וְנַעֲרֵי הַכְּפָר שִׂיחֲקוּ בָּאֲבָנִים כְּמִנְהָגָם, וְאַף כַּאֲשֶׁר רָאוּ מֶרְכַּבְתּוֹ שֶׁל הַמֶּלֶךְ וּבְנֵי לִוְיָתוֹ, אֲזַי לְפִי קוֹצֶר הַשָּׂגָתָם גַּם כָּאן תָּפְשׂוּ אוּמָּנוּתָם בִּזְרִיקַת הָאֲבָנִים, עַד שֶׁבְּאֶבֶן אַחַת נִרְגַּם אִיקוֹנִין שֶׁל מֶלֶךְ, וּמִיָּד נִתְעוֹרֵר מְהוּמָה רַבָּה בְּקֶרֶב שָׂרֵי הַמֶּלֶךְ וְנֶחֱרַץ הַדִּין לְהָמִית אֶת הַנַּעַר זוֹרֵק הָאֶבֶן.
  1. Toldos Yaakov Yosef, Bo, s.v. Al matzos; Tehillim 94:1. ↩
3bBut the king was wise. He understood that the boy had erred because he did not know what a king is, or how precious and exalted a king is. So he ordered that the boy not be put to death; he would punish him himself, in another way. He took the boy with him to the royal palace and gave him every good thing. The boy saw the king's splendor, and so he set his heart to understand more and more of the king's greatness and majesty. And the more he understood, the greater his anguish grew: how had he dared to rebel against the king's honor by throwing that stone? In the end he came and fell at the king's feet, weeping and pleading with the king to forgive him.
אֲבָל הַמֶּלֶךְ שֶׁפִּיקֵּחַ הָיָה, הִשְׂכִּיל וְהֵבִין שֶׁהַנַּעַר שָׁגָה בָּזֶה מִתּוֹךְ שֶׁלֹּא יָדַע מַהוּ מֶלֶךְ וְגוֹדֶל יִקְרַת עֵרֶךְ הַמֶּלֶךְ, וְעַל כֵּן פָּקַד שֶׁלֹּא יְמִיתוּהוּ וְהוּא יַעֲנִישֵׁהוּ בְּדֶרֶךְ אַחֶרֶת. וְלָקַח עִמּוֹ אֶת הַנַּעַר לַפַּלְטֵרִין שֶׁל מֶלֶךְ וְנָתַן לוֹ מִכָּל טוּב, וְרָאָה הַנַּעַר אֶת יִקְרַת הַמֶּלֶךְ, וּמִתּוֹךְ כָּךְ שָׁת לִבּוֹ לְהָבִין יוֹתֵר וְיוֹתֵר גְּדוּלָּתוֹ וְרוֹמְמוּתוֹ, וְעַל יְדֵי זֶה הָיָה מוֹסִיף צַעַר עַל צַעֲרוֹ, אֵיךְ מְלָאוֹ לִבּוֹ לִמְרוֹד בִּכְבוֹד הַמֶּלֶךְ בַּמֶּה שֶׁזָּרַק הָאֶבֶן, עַד שֶׁבָּא וְנָפַל לִפְנֵי רַגְלֵי הַמֶּלֶךְ וּבָכָה וְהִתְחַנֵּן שֶׁיִּמְחוֹל לוֹ הַמֶּלֶךְ.
3cThe meaning of the parable is clear. The King is the King of the world, the Holy One, blessed be He, Who sent our souls down from the upper world. The soul was hewn from a source beneath the Throne of Glory, but because of material concerns we forget that we are children of kings, and we do things against the King's will. So Hashem bestows on us an abundance of blessing and success. As a result we come to think and reflect within ourselves: “We have sinned and rebelled so much against the honor of this merciful King, Who gives us such abundant blessing!” And from this we return in complete teshuvah. This is the meaning of “God of vengeance”: what is the vengeance of the King of kings? It is the attribute of Kel, of mercy: He bestows on us an abundance of blessing. Through this we are aroused and remember that we are children of kings, and we repent out of love. Those are my holy father's words, in the name of the Baal Shem Tov.
וְהַנִּמְשָׁל בָּזֶה מוּבָן, כִּי הַמֶּלֶךְ מַלְכּוֹ שֶׁל עוֹלָם הקב״ה שָׁלַח נִשְׁמוֹתֵינוּ מֵעוֹלָם הָעֶלְיוֹן, וּמְקוֹר מַחְצֶבֶת הַנְּשָׁמָה הוּא תַּחַת כִּסֵּא הַכָּבוֹד, וּמֵחֲמַת עִנְיְנֵי הַגַּשְׁמִיּוּת נִשְׁכַּח מֵאִתָּנוּ שֶׁבְּנֵי מְלָכִים אָנוּ, וְעוֹשִׂים אָנוּ מַעֲשִׂים נֶגֶד רְצוֹן הַמֶּלֶךְ. עַל כֵּן הקב״ה מַשְׁפִּיעַ עָלֵינוּ שֶׁפַע בְּרָכָה וְהַצְלָחָה, וּמִתּוֹךְ כָּךְ אָנוּ בָּאִים לַחְשׁוֹב וּלְהִתְבּוֹנֵן לְנַפְשֵׁנוּ, הֲרֵי אָנוּ פָּגַמְנוּ וּמָרַדְנוּ כָּל כָּךְ בִּכְבוֹד זֶה הַמֶּלֶךְ הָרַחֲמָן הַנּוֹתֵן לָנוּ שֶׁפַע בְּרָכָה כָּל כָּךְ, וּמִתּוֹךְ כָּךְ אָנוּ שָׁבִים בִּתְשׁוּבָה בִּשְׁלֵימוּת. וְזֶה הַפֵּירוּשׁ ״אֵל נְקָמוֹת״, הַיְינוּ דְּמַה הִיא הַנְּקָמָה שֶׁל מֶלֶךְ מַלְכֵי הַמְּלָכִים, הוּא מִדַּת א״ל, מַה שֶׁמַּשְׁפִּיעַ לָנוּ שֶׁפַע בְּרָכָה, וְעַל יְדֵי זֶה אָנוּ מִתְעוֹרְרִים וְנִזְכָּרִים שֶׁאָנוּ בְּנֵי מְלָכִים, וְעוֹשִׂים תְּשׁוּבָה מֵאַהֲבָה, עכד״ק.
In shortLike the king who “punished” the boy with every good thing until he wept, Hashem's vengeance is blessing that brings us back out of love.
4This explains our verse. As is well known, the deeds of the fathers are a sign for the children,5 and everything Yaakov Avinu did was a prayer and request for the generations to come. So “Yaakov wished to reveal to his sons the end of days, and the Shechinah departed from him” means this. When Yaakov blessed the tribes, he meant to act through this for the generations to come, and he foresaw and looked out over all the generations until the end of days. He saw that there would be times when, Heaven forbid, Bnei Yisrael would not be prepared and fit to receive the blessings, especially in the difficult times before the coming of Moshiach. That is what the verse hints at with dibber, a harsh expression. Yaakov Avinu therefore asked Hashem that even when the attribute of judgment rests upon them, the realm of harsh words, even then the Holy One, blessed be He, should bless you6 in the way of “God of vengeance, Hashem,” as in the parable of the king. That is, His judgment should take the form of bestowing blessings on Klal Yisrael, and through this it would be privileged to draw close to Him out of ease and peace of mind.
וְזֶה בֵּיאוּר הָעִנְיָן כָּאן, דִּכְיַדּוּעַ מַעֲשֵׂה אָבוֹת סִימָן לְבָנִים (עיין סוטה לד, א), וְכָל מַה שֶׁעָשָׂה יַעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ ע״ה הָיָה תְּפִלָּה וּבַקָּשָׁה לַדּוֹרוֹת הַבָּאִים. וּבִיקֵּשׁ יַעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ לְגַלּוֹת לְבָנָיו קֵץ הַיָּמִין וְנִסְתַּלְּקָה מִמֶּנּוּ שְׁכִינָה, הַיְינוּ דִּכְשֶׁבֵּרַךְ אֶת הַשְּׁבָטִים, וּבָזֶה בָּא לִפְעוֹל עֲבוּר הַדּוֹרוֹת הַבָּאִים, צָפָה וְהִבִּיט עַל כָּל הַדּוֹרוֹת עַד אַחֲרִית הַיָּמִים, וְרָאָה שֶׁיִּהְיוּ זְמַנִּים שח״ו בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל לֹא יִהְיוּ מוּכָנִים וּרְאוּיִים לְקַבֵּל אֶת הַבְּרָכוֹת, וּבְיִחוּד בְּעִיתִּים הַקָּשִׁים אֲשֶׁר לִפְנֵי בִּיאַת הַמָּשִׁיחַ, וְכִמְרוּמָּז בְּאָמְרוֹ אֲשֶׁר ׳דִּבֶּר׳ לָשׁוֹן קָשָׁה, וּלְזֹאת בִּיקֵּשׁ יַעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ ע״ה מהשי״ת, שֶׁאֲפִילּוּ כַּאֲשֶׁר תִּשְׁרֶה עֲלֵיהֶם מִידַּת הַדִּין בְּחִינַת דְּבָרִים הַקָּשִׁים, גַּם אָז יְבָרֵךְ אֶתְכֶם הקב״ה כִּבְחִינַת אֵל נְקָמוֹת ה׳ כַּנִּזְכָּר, שֶׁהַדִּין שֶׁל הקב״ה הוּא עַל יְדֵי שֶׁמַּשְׁפִּיעַ בְּרָכוֹת לִכְלַל יִשְׂרָאֵל, וְעַל יְדֵי כֵּן זוֹכִים לְהִתְקָרֵב אֵלָיו יִתְבָּרֵךְ מִתּוֹךְ הַרְחָבַת הַדַּעַת.
  1. See Sotah 34a. ↩
  2. So printed. The Hebrew reads “you” (אֶתְכֶם), as if Yaakov were addressing his sons directly; the sense may be “them,” the later generations. ↩
In shortYaakov foresaw times of judgment before Moshiach, hinted in the harsh dibber, and prayed that even then Hashem would draw Israel close through blessing.
5This also lets us understand why Yaakov Avinu said that perhaps there was someone unfit among them. He did not mean the tribes themselves, but the generations that would come after them in the days of “the footsteps of Moshiach,” the era just before the redemption.7 And, as we see to our sorrow, this fear that “perhaps there is someone unfit” has come true. That is why Yaakov Avinu prayed that at least Bnei Yisrael would accept the yoke of the kingship of Heaven, and through this earn the redemption. This is the meaning of the sons' answer, “Hear, Yisrael”: we accept upon ourselves and upon our generations the yoke of the kingship of Heaven.
וּבָזֶה גַּם מוּבָן מַה שֶּׁאָמַר יַעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ ׳שֶׁמָּא פָּסוּל יֵשׁ בָּכֶם׳, דְּאֵין הַכַּוָּונָה בָּזֶה לְהַשְּׁבָטִים עַצְמָם, אֶלָּא הַכַּוָּונָה לְהַדּוֹרוֹת הַבָּאִים אַחֲרֵיהֶם בְּעִקְבְתָא דִּמְשִׁיחָא, וְכַאֲשֶׁר רוֹאִים אָנוּ לִצְעָרֵינוּ שֶׁנִּתְקַיֵּים הַחֲשָׁשׁ הַזֶּה דְּשֶׁמָּא יֵשׁ פָּסוּל, וְעַל כָּךְ בִּיקֵּשׁ יַעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ ע״ה שֶׁעַל כָּל פָּנִים בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל יַמְלִיכוּ עֲלֵיהֶם עוֹל מַלְכוּת שָׁמַיִם, וְעַל יְדֵי זֶה יִזְכּוּ לִגְאוּלָּה, וְזֶה הַפֵּירוּשׁ פָּתְחוּ וְאָמְרוּ ״שְׁמַע יִשְׂרָאֵל״, שֶׁאָנוּ מְקַבְּלִים עָלֵינוּ וְעַל דּוֹרוֹתֵינוּ עוֹל מַלְכוּת שָׁמַיִם.
  1. Sotah 49b. ↩
In shortYaakov's fear of someone unfit concerned the generations before Moshiach; his sons' “Hear, Yisrael” accepted Heaven's yoke for all their descendants.
6May the Holy One, blessed be He, help us to reach those who are far away, so that they draw close to Him. There is much to do and accomplish here in our generation, as we plainly see. But the main thing is to improve our own deeds, and this in itself influences them: for example, by being careful about love and brotherhood, and by being careful not to talk during prayer. In this way we show our brothers how much we honor the “little sanctuaries,”8 our shuls and houses of study, and through this they will accept upon themselves the yoke of the kingship of Heaven. And so we will be privileged to see the redemption. Amen, may it be His will.
הקב״ה יַעַזְרֵנוּ שֶׁנּוּכַל לְהַשְׁפִּיעַ עַל הָרְחוֹקִים שֶׁיִּתְקָרְבוּ אֶל הקב״ה, וְיֵשׁ הַרְבֵּה מָה לַעֲשׂוֹת וְלִפְעוֹל בָּזֶה בְּדוֹרֵנוּ כַּאֲשֶׁר רוֹאִים אָנוּ בְּחוּשׁ, אַךְ הָעִיקָּר לְשַׁפֵּר מַעֲשֵׂינוּ, וּבָזֶה עַצְמוֹ אָנוּ מַשְׁפִּיעִים עֲלֵיהֶם, כְּגוֹן עַל יְדֵי זְהִירוּת בְּעִנְיַן אַהֲבָה וְאַחֲוָה, וְכֵן הַזְּהִירוּת שֶׁלֹּא לְדַבֵּר בְּעֵת הַתְּפִילָּה, דְּבָזֶה אָנוּ מַרְאִים לְאַחֵינוּ עַד כַּמָּה אָנוּ מְכַבְּדִים מִקְדְּשֵׁי מְעַט, וְעַל יְדֵי זֶה הֵם יְקַבְּלוּ עֲלֵיהֶם עוֹל מַלְכוּת שָׁמַיִם, וּמִתּוֹךְ כָּךְ נִזְכֶּה לִגְאוּלָּה, אָמֵן כֵּן יְהִי רָצוֹן:
  1. Yechezkel 11:16; Megillah 29a. ↩
In shortThe Rebbe prays that we draw the distant near, chiefly by improving our own conduct, and so see the redemption.
Takeaway

Hashem's “vengeance” can take the form of more blessing, given so that we will see how much a merciful King has given us and return to Him out of love, remembering that we are children of kings. Yaakov foresaw the weak generations before Moshiach and prayed that even then we would be drawn close through blessing. Our part is to accept the yoke of Heaven and to bring others near mainly by improving our own deeds: in love and brotherhood, and in honoring the shul by not talking during prayer.

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