Built on Kindness: The Gateway to Torah
From the Torah ofRav Dovid Matisyohu Rabinowitzהרב דוד מתתיהו בן יחיאל יהושע רבינוביץProfile ›
Bereishis 18:19
כִּי יְדַעְתִּיו לְמַעַן אֲשֶׁר יְצַוֶּה אֶת־בָּנָיו וְאֶת־בֵּיתוֹ אַחֲרָיו וְשָׁמְרוּ דֶּרֶךְ יְהֹוָה לַעֲשׂוֹת צְדָקָה וּמִשְׁפָּט לְמַעַן הָבִיא יְהֹוָה עַל־אַבְרָהָם אֵת אֲשֶׁר־דִּבֶּר עָלָיו
For I have known him, so that he will command his children and his household after him, and they will keep the way of Hashem, to do tzedakah and justice, so that Hashem may bring upon Avraham that which He spoke concerning him.
1a“So that he will command his children and his household after him, and they will keep the way of Hashem, to do tzedakah and justice.”1 Why did Avraham Avinu command his descendants about tzedakah and kindness in particular, more than about all the other 613 mitzvos? We also need to understand a verse further on: “And he planted an eshel …”2 The Gemara comments: “Reish Lakish said: This teaches that he made an orchard and planted in it all kinds of choice fruits. R' Yehudah and R' Nechemiah differ: one said it was an orchard, and the other said it was an inn.”3 Rashi explains that the orchard was for passersby to enjoy and the inn for guests to lodge in, and that the word eshel is formed from the initials of achilah, eating, shesiyah, drinking, and levayah, escorting, and so on.
לְמַעַן אֲשֶׁר יְצַוֶּה אֶת בָּנָיו וְאֶת בֵּיתוֹ אַחֲרָיו וְשָׁמְרוּ דֶּרֶךְ ה׳ לַעֲשׂוֹת צְדָקָה וּמִשְׁפָּט (יח, יט). וְיֵשׁ לְדַקְדֵּק, מַדּוּעַ צִוָּה אַבְרָהָם אָבִינוּ ע״ה לְזַרְעוֹ עַל מִצְוֹות צְדָקָה וָחֶסֶד בִּלְחוּד, יוֹתֵר מִשְּׁאָר כָּל תרי״ג מִצְוֹות. וּכְמוֹ כֵּן יֵשׁ לְהָבִין אֶת מַה שֶּׁאָמַר הַכָּתוּב לְהַלָּן (כא, לג) וַיִּטַּע אֵשֶׁל וְגוֹ׳, וּבַגְּמָרָא (סוטה י, א) אָמַר רֵישׁ לָקִישׁ מְלַמֵּד שֶׁעָשָׂה פַּרְדֵּס וְנָטַע בּוֹ כָּל מִינֵי מְגָדִים, רַבִּי יְהוּדָה וְרַבִּי נְחֶמְיָה חַד אָמַר פַּרְדֵּס וְחַד אָמַר פּוּנְדָּק, וּפֵירֵשׁ רש״י ז״ל, וְנָטַע שָׁם לֵהָנוֹת עוֹבְרִים וְשָׁבִים פּוּנְדָּק לָלוּן שָׁם אוֹרְחִים, וּלְשׁוֹן אֵשֶׁל הוּא נוֹטָרִיקוֹן אֲכִילָה שְׁתִיָּה לְוִיָּה וְכוּ׳.
1bThis calls for an explanation. Hospitality to guests is certainly an exceedingly great thing, but it would seem that Avraham's main task was to bring those who were far away close to Hashem and to teach them Torah. If so, it would seem more fitting for him to have founded a yeshivah to draw them close to Torah. [Chazal do say, “Avraham Avinu was an elder who sat in the yeshivah.”4 Still, for the many people who were drawn close to him, we find only that he gave them food, drink and lodging.]
וְצָרִיךְ בֵּיאוּר, דְּאָמְנָם הַכְנָסַת אוֹרְחִים דָּבָר גָּדוֹל הוּא עַד לִמְאֹד, אַךְ לִכְאוֹרָה עִיקַּר הָעֲבוֹדָה הַמּוּטֶּלֶת עָלָיו הָיְתָה לְקָרֵב אֶת הָרְחוֹקִים לְהַשֵּׁם יִתְבָּרַךְ וּלְלַמְּדָם תּוֹרָה, אִם כֵּן לִכְאוֹרָה מִן הָרָאוּי יוֹתֵר הָיָה שֶׁיִּיסֵּד אַבְרָהָם אָבִינוּ ע״ה לָהֶם יְשִׁיבָה לְקָרְבָם לַתּוֹרָה. [וַהֲגַם שֶׁאָמְרוּ חז״ל (יומא כח, ב) אַבְרָהָם אָבִינוּ זָקֵן וְיוֹשֵׁב בִּישִׁיבָה הָיָה, מִכָּל מָקוֹם לְעִנְיַן הָרַבִּים שֶׁנִּתְקָרְבוּ אֵלָיו לֹא מָצִינוּ אֶלָּא שֶׁנָּתַן לָהֶם אֲכִילָה וּשְׁתִיָּה וְלִינָה].
- Yoma 28b. ↩
In shortWhy did Avraham single out tzedakah and kindness, and why did he draw people with an inn's food and lodging rather than a yeshivah?
2Let us first cite a teaching of Chazal in the early Midrash Tanna Devei Eliyahu: “Those who went out of Egypt had one mitzvah in their hands, and it was more pleasing to the Holy One, blessed be He, than a hundred mitzvos: they all formed a single band and made a covenant to do kindness for one another …”5 Yet it would seem that the whole purpose of the Exodus was for Israel to receive the Torah, as the verse says, “When you take the people out of Egypt, you will serve God upon this mountain.”6 Why, then, did they make a covenant to do kindness for one another, and not a covenant about Torah, to teach one another?
וְנַקְדִּים, דְּהִנֵּה אָמְרוּ חז״ל (תנא דבי אליהו פרק כד), יוֹצְאֵי מִצְרַיִם מִצְוָה אַחַת הָיְתָה בְיָדָם, וְהָיְתָה לִפְנֵי הקב״ה נוֹחַ הַרְבֵּה יוֹתֵר מִן מֵאָה מִצְוֹות, שֶׁעָשׂוּ כּוּלָּם אֲגוּדָּה אַחַת וְכָרְתוּ בְּרִית לִגְמוֹל חֶסֶד זֶה עִם זֶה, וְכוּ׳. וְהִנֵּה לִכְאוֹרָה הֲרֵי תַּכְלִית יְצִיאַת יִשְׂרָאֵל מִמִּצְרַיִם הָיְתָה עַל מְנָת לְקַבֵּל הַתּוֹרָה, כְּמוֹ שֶׁאָמַר הַכָּתוּב (שמות ג, יב) ״בְּהוֹצִיאֲךָ אֶת הָעָם מִמִּצְרַיִם תַּעַבְדוּן אֶת הָאֱלֹקִים עַל הָהָר הַזֶּה״, אִם כֵּן יֵשׁ לְהָבִין לָמָּה עָשׂוּ כְּרִיתַת בְּרִית לִגְמוֹל חֶסֶד זֶה עִם זֶה, וְלֹא עַל עִנְיַן תּוֹרָה, לִכְרוֹת בְּרִית לְלַמֵּד זֶה לָזֶה.
In shortIsrael left Egypt to receive the Torah, yet it bound itself by covenant to kindness, not to teaching one another Torah.
3aWe can explain all this as follows. The verse says, “The world is built by kindness”:7 the foundation on which the world is built and stands is kindness. To see why, we begin with Chazal's teaching that the Torah was created before the world.8 At first glance, what need was there for the Torah before the world existed, when there were no people to study it? The answer is that it was created first to show everyone who comes into the world that the world could be created only once the Torah already existed. Only through the Torah does the world endure, as Rashi and Chazal explain the verse “If not for My covenant day and night, I would not have set the laws of heaven and earth.”9
וּלְהָבִין כָּל זֶה יֵשׁ לוֹמַר, דְּהִנֵּה כְּתִיב (תהלים פט, ג) ״עוֹלָם חֶסֶד יִבָּנֶה״, וְהַכַּוָּונָה בָּזֶה, אֲשֶׁר יְסוֹד הָעוֹלָם אֲשֶׁר עַל זֶה הָעוֹלָם נִבְנָה וְעוֹמֵד הוּא מִידַּת הַחֶסֶד. וְהַבֵּיאוּר בָּזֶה הוּא עַל פִּי מַה שֶׁאָמְרוּ רז״ל (נדרים לט, ב) שֶׁהַתּוֹרָה נִבְרְאָה קוֹדֶם בְּרִיאַת הָעוֹלָם, וְלִכְאוֹרָה לְשֵׁם מָה הָיָה צָרִיךְ לַתּוֹרָה קוֹדֶם הָעוֹלָם כַּאֲשֶׁר אֵין אֲנָשִׁים שֶׁיַּעַסְקוּ בָּהּ, אֶלָּא הָיָה זֶה בִּכְדֵי לְהַרְאוֹת בָּזֶה לְכָל בָּאֵי עוֹלָם, שֶׁרַק לְאַחַר שֶׁהָיְתָה הַתּוֹרָה קַיֶּימֶת הָיָה אֶפְשָׁר לִבְרוֹא אֶת הָעוֹלָם, דְּרַק עַל יְדֵי הַתּוֹרָה יֵשׁ קִיּוּם לְעוֹלָם, כְּמוֹ שֶׁאָמַר הַכָּתוּב ״אִם לֹא בְרִיתִי יוֹמָם וָלָיְלָה חֻקּוֹת שָׁמַיִם וָאָרֶץ לֹא שָׂמְתִּי״ (ירמיהו לג, כה וברש״י ז״ל שם, וכדרשת חז״ל שבת פח, א).
3bThe truth of this is plain in our own days: everyone can see what the world looks like without Torah study. This is especially true of the Jewish people, who cannot survive without Torah, as Chazal teach in the Gemara: “Once the wicked Roman kingdom decreed that Israel must not engage in Torah. Pappus ben Yehudah came and found R' Akiva gathering crowds in public …”10 R' Akiva answered with a parable: “To what can the matter be compared? To a fox …”11 And he went on: “If in the place where we live we are afraid, in the place where we die, how much more so! So it is with us: when we sit and engage in the Torah, of which it is written, ‘For it is your life and the length of your days,’ this is our state; if we go and abandon it, how much more so!”12 From this we see how vital Torah study is for the survival of the Jewish people. Without the Torah, the Jewish people has no life in the world at all.
דַּהֲלֹא נִרְאֶה לְכָל בְּיָמֵינוּ, אֵיךְ נִרְאֶה הָעוֹלָם בְּלִי לִימּוּד הַתּוֹרָה. וּבְיִחוּד עַם יִשְׂרָאֵל שֶׁאֵינֶנּוּ יָכוֹל לְהִתְקַיֵּים בְּלִי תּוֹרָה, כְּמוֹ שֶׁאָמְרוּ חז״ל בְּמַסֶּכֶת בְּרָכוֹת (סא, א) פַּעַם אַחַת גָּזְרָה מַלְכוּת הָרְשָׁעָה שֶׁלֹּא יַעַסְקוּ יִשְׂרָאֵל בַּתּוֹרָה, בָּא פַּפּוּס בֶּן יְהוּדָה וּמְצָאוֹ לְרַבִּי עֲקִיבָא שֶׁהָיָה מַקְהִיל קְהִילּוֹת בָּרַבִּים וְכוּ׳, מָשָׁל לְמָה הַדָּבָר דּוֹמֶה לְשׁוּעָל וְכוּ׳, וּמָה בִּמְקוֹם חִיּוּתֵינוּ אָנוּ מִתְיָרְאִין בִּמְקוֹם מִיתָתֵנוּ עַל אַחַת כַּמָּה וְכַמָּה, אַף אֲנַחְנוּ עַכְשָׁיו שֶׁאָנוּ יוֹשְׁבִים וְעוֹסְקִים בַּתּוֹרָה שֶׁכָּתוּב בָּהּ (דברים ל, כ) כִּי הוּא חַיֶּיךָ וְאוֹרֶךְ יָמֶיךָ כָּךְ, אִם אָנוּ הוֹלְכִים וּמִתְבַּטְּלִים מִמֶּנָּה עַל אַחַת כַּמָּה וְכַמָּה. מִזֶּה נִרְאֶה מַה מְאֹד נָחוּץ לִימּוּד הַתּוֹרָה לְקִיּוּם עַם יִשְׂרָאֵל, וּבְלִי הַתּוֹרָה אֵין לְעַם יִשְׂרָאֵל חַיּוּת בָּעוֹלָם כְּלָל.
- Berachos 61b (the sefer has 61a). ↩
- In R' Akiva's parable, a fox invites the fish to escape the fishermen's nets by coming up onto dry land, and they answer that if they are afraid in the water, where they live, they would be all the more afraid on land, where they would die. ↩
- Devarim 30:20. ↩
In shortThe Torah was created before the world to show that the world, and above all the Jewish people, can exist only through it.
4We can now see why kindness is what sustains the world. The way to bring Jews close to Hashem and to His Torah is by doing kindness for one another. And the way to acquire the Torah is by teaching one another; when a Jew teaches a friend who cannot learn on his own, that too counts for him as an act of kindness. This is what the verse calls “a Torah of kindness,” as Chazal explain.13 That is what Dovid HaMelech meant by “The world is built by kindness.” True, the world endures through the Torah. But the Torah is acquired through the kindness of teaching one another, and kindness also draws people close to Hashem and His Torah. So the whole structure of the world and its existence rests on kindness.
וְעַל פִּי זֶה יוּבָן מַדּוּעַ מִצְוַות חֶסֶד הִיא קִיּוּם הָעוֹלָם, דְּהִנֵּה הַדֶּרֶךְ לְקָרֵב אֶת בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל לְהַשֵּׁם יִתְבָּרַךְ וּלְתוֹרָתוֹ הוּא עַל יְדֵי שֶׁגּוֹמְלִים חֶסֶד זֶה עִם זֶה. גַּם הַדֶּרֶךְ לִקְנוֹת הַתּוֹרָה הוּא עַל יְדֵי שֶׁמְּלַמְּדִים זֶה לָזֶה, וּבָזֶה שֶׁמְּלַמֵּד אִישׁ יִשְׂרָאֵל לַחֲבֵרוֹ שֶׁאֵינוֹ יָכוֹל לִלְמוֹד בְּעַצְמוֹ נֶחְשָׁב לוֹ גַּם כְּמַעֲשֵׂה חֶסֶד, וְזֶהוּ נִקְרָא תּוֹרַת חֶסֶד (משלי לא, כו) וּכְמַאֲמַר חז״ל (סוכה מט, ב). וְזֶה כַּוָּונַת דָּוִד הַמֶּלֶךְ ע״ה בְּאָמְרוֹ ׳עוֹלָם חֶסֶד יִבָּנֶה׳, דְּאַף שֶׁאָמְנָם קִיּוּם הָעוֹלָם הוּא עַל יְדֵי הַתּוֹרָה, אַךְ כֵּיוָן דְּהַתּוֹרָה נִקְנֵית עַל יְדֵי חֶסֶד שֶׁמְּלַמְּדִים זֶה לָזֶה, וְכֵן עַל יְדֵי הַחֶסֶד מִתְקָרְבִים בְּנֵי אָדָם לְהַשֵּׁם יִתְבָּרַךְ וּלְתוֹרָתוֹ, לָכֵן עַל זֶה עוֹמֵד כָּל בִּנְיַן הָעוֹלָם וְקִיּוּמוֹ.
- Mishlei 31:26; Sukkah 49b. ↩
In shortKindness is the world's foundation because it opens the way to the Torah: it draws people close, and teaching others is “a Torah of kindness.”
5This is the meaning of the words “so that he will command …” Avraham Avinu did command his descendants to keep the entire Torah, as it says, “and they will keep the way of Hashem.” But the Torah endures only through kindness, and “the world is built by kindness.” So he commanded them first and foremost “to do tzedakah,” so that they would draw one another close to the Torah and strengthen one another in it. And “to do tzedakah” covers not only material things but spiritual ones as well: teaching Torah to one's fellow.
וְזֶה הַפֵּירוּשׁ ״לְמַעַן אֲשֶׁר יְצַוֶּה״ וְגוֹ׳, כִּי בֶּאֱמֶת אַבְרָהָם אָבִינוּ ע״ה צִיוָּה לְזַרְעוֹ עַל שְׁמִירַת כָּל הַתּוֹרָה כּוּלָּהּ, כְּדִכְתִיב וְשָׁמְרוּ דֶּרֶךְ ה׳, אַךְ מֵחֲמַת שֶׁהַתּוֹרָה מִתְקַיֶּימֶת אַךְ וְרַק עַל יְדֵי חֶסֶד, וְעוֹלָם חֶסֶד יִבָּנֶה, לָכֵן צִיוָּה עֲלֵיהֶם בָּרֹאשׁ וּבָרִאשׁוֹנָה לַעֲשׂוֹת צְדָקָה, בִּכְדֵי לְקָרֵב וּלְחַזֵּק זֶה אֶת זֶה לַתּוֹרָה, וְגַם כִּי לַעֲשׂוֹת צְדָקָה אֵינֶנּוּ רַק בַּגַּשְׁמִיּוּת אֶלָּא גַּם בְּרוּחָנִיּוּת, לְלַמֵּד תּוֹרָה אֶת חֲבֵרוֹ.
In shortAvraham commanded the whole Torah but put tzedakah first, since kindness, material and spiritual, is what makes the Torah endure.
6This answers our question about the eshel. All of Avraham Avinu's avodah was to bring the people of the world close to Hashem, and, as we have seen, people come close to Hashem through acts of kindness. So he set up a place of hospitality, to draw people through it to Torah.
וְזֶהוּ הָעִנְיָן מַה שֶׁאַבְרָהָם אָבִינוּ ע״ה נָטַע אֵשֶׁל, כִּי כָּל עֲבוֹדָתוֹ הָיְתָה לְקָרֵב אֶת בְּנֵי הָעוֹלָם לְהַשֵּׁם יִתְבָּרַךְ, וְכַאֲשֶׁר אָמַרְנוּ דְּעַל יְדֵי גְּמִילוּת חֶסֶד מִתְקָרְבִים לְהַשֵּׁם יִתְבָּרַךְ, לָכֵן יָסַד אַבְרָהָם אָבִינוּ ע״ה מְקוֹם הַכְנָסַת אוֹרְחִים, לְקָרֵב עַל יָדוֹ לַתּוֹרָה.
In shortAvraham founded an inn, not a yeshivah, because kindness is the way to bring people close to Hashem and His Torah.
7In the same way we can understand why our forefathers, when they left Egypt, made their covenant about kindness, of all things. They left Egypt in order to receive the Torah, and the way to receive it, as we have seen, is through kindness.
וּבָזֶה גַּם יוּבָן לָמָּה כַּאֲשֶׁר יָצְאוּ אֲבוֹתֵינוּ מִמִּצְרַיִם כָּרְתוּ בְּרִית עַל חֶסֶד דַּוְקָא, כִּי מַה שֶׁיָּצְאוּ מִמִּצְרַיִם הוּא בִּכְדֵי לְקַבֵּל הַתּוֹרָה, וְהַדֶּרֶךְ לָזֶה הוּא עַל יְדֵי מִידַּת הַחֶסֶד, כַּנִּזְכָּר.
In shortThe Exodus generation covenanted to do kindness because kindness is the path to receiving the Torah, the purpose of leaving Egypt.
8May it be His will that we be privileged to attain both kindness and a Torah of kindness. Amen.
יְהִי רָצוֹן שֶׁנִּזְכֶּה לְמִדַּת הַחֶסֶד וּלְתוֹרַת חֶסֶד אָמֵן.
In shortMay we attain both kindness and a Torah of kindness.
Takeaway
The world stands on Torah, but the Torah itself is acquired and kept alive through kindness. That is why Avraham drew people to Hashem with food, drink and lodging, and why the generation leaving Egypt prepared for Sinai by binding themselves to do kindness for one another. When we help others in body and teach them Torah in spirit, we keep Avraham's command to his children “to do tzedakah,” and our learning becomes a Torah of kindness.
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