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Serving Hashem in Tranquility: Yaakov's Path of Fear

From the Torah ofRav Dovid Matisyohu Rabinowitzהרב דוד מתתיהו בן יחיאל יהושע רבינוביץProfile ›
Bereishis 37:1
וַיֵּשֶׁב יַעֲקֹב בְּאֶרֶץ מְגוּרֵי אָבִיו בְּאֶרֶץ כְּנָעַן
And Yaakov settled in the land of his father's sojournings, in the land of Canaan.

Rashi on the next verse (37:2): Yaakov sought to dwell in tranquility, and the trouble of Yosef sprang upon him. Tzaddikim seek to dwell in tranquility; the Holy One, blessed be He, says: Is what awaits them in the World to Come not enough for the tzaddikim, that they also seek to dwell in tranquility in this world?

1“And Yaakov settled in the land of his father's sojournings, in the land of Canaan.”1 The commentators, the Peirush HaRiva, the Kli Yakar and the Ohr HaChaim, ask why the verse adds the words “in the land of his father's sojournings.” Do we not already know that his father Yitzchak lived in the land of Canaan?
וַיֵּשֶׁב יַעֲקֹב בְּאֶרֶץ מְגוּרֵי אָבִיו בְּאֶרֶץ כְּנָעַן (לז, א). הִקְשׁוּ הַמְּפָרְשִׁים (פירוש הריב״א, כלי יקר, אור החיים), מַהוּ יִתּוּר הַלָּשׁוֹן ׳בְּאֶרֶץ מְגוּרֵי אָבִיו׳, הֲלֹא כְּבָר יָדוּעַ לָנוּ שֶׁבְּאֶרֶץ כְּנַעַן גָּר יִצְחָק אָבִיו.
  1. Bereishis 37:1. ↩
In shortWhy does the verse add “the land of his father's sojournings,” when we already know that Yitzchak lived in Canaan?
2Rashi comments: “Yaakov sought to dwell in tranquility, and the trouble of Yosef sprang upon him. Tzaddikim seek to dwell in tranquility. The Holy One, blessed be He, said: Is what awaits them in the World to Come not enough for the tzaddikim, that they also seek to dwell in tranquility in this world?”2 But what is wrong with tzaddikim wishing to live in tranquility? All they want is to serve Hashem, as Chazal said of Moshe Rabbeinu's longing to enter Eretz Yisrael: “Did he then need to eat of its fruit? …”3 Why, then, is their wish for tranquility considered improper?
וברש״י ז״ל אִיתָא, בִּיקֵּשׁ יַעֲקֹב לֵישֵׁב בְּשַׁלְוָה קָפַץ עָלָיו רוֹגְזוֹ שֶׁל יוֹסֵף, צַדִּיקִים מְבַקְּשִׁים לֵישֵׁב בְּשַׁלְוָה אָמַר הקב״ה לֹא דַּיָּין לַצַּדִּיקִים מַה שֶׁמְּתוּקָּן לָהֶם לָעוֹלָם הַבָּא אֶלָּא שֶׁמְּבַקְּשִׁים לֵישֵׁב בְּשַׁלְוָה בָּעוֹלָם הַזֶּה. וְיֵשׁ לְהָבִין, מָה הַחִסָּרוֹן בָּזֶה שֶׁמְּבַקְּשִׁים הַצַּדִּיקִים לֵישֵׁב בְּשַׁלְוָה, הֲלֹא כָּל רְצוֹנָם אֵינוֹ אֶלָּא לַעֲבוֹד אֶת ה׳, כְּאוֹמְרָם ז״ל (סוטה יד, א) וְכִי לֶאֱכוֹל מִפִּרְיָהּ הוּא צָרִיךְ וְכוּ׳, וְלָמָּה שֶׁלֹּא כַּהוֹגֶן הוּא רְצוֹנָם לֵישֵׁב בְּשַׁלְוָה.
  1. Rashi on Bereishis 37:2. ↩
  2. Sotah 14a. Moshe longed to enter the Land not for the enjoyment of its fruit but to fulfill the mitzvos that can be kept only there. ↩
In shortRashi says Hashem objected to the tzaddikim's wish for tranquility in this world, which is puzzling, since they want it only to serve Him.
3The Midrash says: “Because Yaakov Avinu sought to dwell in tranquility in this world, the satan, the adversary, of Yosef came upon him.”4 What do Chazal mean by “the satan of Yosef”?
וּבַמִּדְרָשׁ (בראשית רבה פד, ג) אִיתָא, יַעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ עַל יְדֵי שֶׁבִּיקֵּשׁ לֵישֵׁב בְּשַׁלְוָה בָּעוֹלָם הַזֶּה, נִזְדַּוֵּוג לוֹ שְׂטָנוֹ שֶׁל יוֹסֵף. וְיֵשׁ לְהָבִין לְשׁוֹן חֲכָמִים, מַהוּ ׳שְׂטָנוֹ שֶׁל יוֹסֵף׳.
  1. Bereishis Rabbah 84:3. ↩
In shortThe Midrash says Yaakov's wish for tranquility brought upon him “the satan of Yosef”: what does the phrase mean?
4We will explain this with the words of my holy father and teacher, zt"l, on the verse “A ladder set upon the earth, and its top reaching to heaven.”5 He noted that, as is well known, the word sulam, “ladder,” has the same numerical value as mamon, “money.”6 From this he explained that even when a person is busy with money and physical matters, he must have the honor of Heaven in mind as well. For we know that money too can be used in avodas Hashem, the service of Hashem. So although the ladder, money, is “set upon the earth,” still “its top reaches to heaven”: through money a person can attain great and wondrous things. Chazal meant the same when they said, “One who prays must direct his eyes downward and his heart upward.”7 Even when his eyes are on his physical affairs, “downward,” he can reach lofty levels through them, so that “his heart is upward.” Those are his holy words.
וּנְבָאֵר עַל פִּי אִמְרֵי קוֹדֶשׁ כ״ק אאמו״ר זצללה״ה, שֶׁאָמַר עַל הַכָּתוּב (בראשית כה, יב) ״סוּלָּם מוּצָּב אַרְצָה וְרֹאשׁוֹ מַגִּיעַ הַשָּׁמָיְמָה״, ׳סוּלָּם׳ גֵּימַטְרְיָא ׳מָמוֹן׳ כַּיָּדוּעַ (בעל הטורים שם, ועיין בעש״ט פרשת ויצא שם). וּפֵירֵשׁ בָּזֶה, כִּי גַּם בְּעֵת שֶׁעוֹסְקִים בְּמָמוֹן וּבְגַשְׁמִיּוּת, צְרִיכִים גַּם כֵּן לְכַוֵּון לִכְבוֹד שָׁמַיִם, שֶׁאַף בְּמָמוֹן אֶפְשָׁר לְהִשְׁתַּמֵּשׁ בּוֹ לַעֲבוֹדַת ה׳ כַּיָּדוּעַ, לָכֵן אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁ׳סוּלָּם׳ דְּהַיְינוּ הַמָּמוֹן ׳מוּצָּב אַרְצָה׳, אַךְ ׳וְרֹאשׁוֹ מַגִּיעַ הַשָּׁמָיְמָה׳, אֶפְשָׁר לְהַגִּיעַ עַל יְדֵי מָמוֹן לִגְדוֹלוֹת וְנִפְלָאוֹת. וְזֶה גַּם הַכַּוָּונָה בַּמֶּה שֶׁאָמְרוּ חז״ל (יבמות קה, ב) הַמִּתְפַּלֵּל צָרִיךְ שֶׁיִּתֵּן עֵינָיו לְמַטָּה וְלִבּוֹ לְמַעְלָה, הַיְינוּ שֶׁגַּם כַּאֲשֶׁר עֵינָיו בִּדְבָרָיו הַגַּשְׁמִיִּים, בְּחִינַת ׳לְמַטָּה׳, אֶפְשָׁר לְהַגִּיעַ עַל יָדָם לְמַעֲלוֹת רָמוֹת, שֶׁ׳לִבּוֹ יִהְיֶה לְמַעְלָה׳, עכד״ק.
  1. Bereishis 28:12 (the sefer has 25:12). ↩
  2. Baal HaTurim on Bereishis 28:12; and see Baal Shem Tov on the Torah, Vayeitzei. ↩
  3. Yevamos 105b. ↩
In shortThe Rebbe's father taught that money, the “ladder” set on the earth, can reach to heaven when used with the honor of Heaven in mind.
5To explain this further, we may say the following. Chazal's well-known teaching is that Yaakov and Esav divided this world and the World to Come between them: Yaakov took the World to Come, and Esav took this world.8 Yet Yaakov Avinu sought to dwell in tranquility in this world as well. He reasoned that the World to Come is indeed the main thing, and a Jew has no need at all for this world and its physical pleasures. Still, he wanted to serve Hashem through the things of this world too, since every one of them can be dedicated to His service. This is the familiar idea of “Know Him in all your ways.”9 If, while busy with physical matters, a person has in mind to do the Creator's will through them, then, as is known, even the physical becomes like the spiritual. In that case the things of this world are no longer part of the “this world” that belongs to Esav. They are like a part of the World to Come, which Yaakov Avinu took as his portion.
וּלְבָאֵר הָעִנְיָן יוֹתֵר אֶפְשָׁר לוֹמַר, דְּנוֹדַע מַאֲמַר חז״ל (ילקוט שמעוני קי) שֶׁיַּעֲקֹב וְעֵשָׂו חִילְּקוּ בֵּינֵיהֶם אֶת הָעוֹלָם הַזֶּה וְהָעוֹלָם הַבָּא, שֶׁיַּעֲקֹב נָטַל עוֹלָם הַבָּא, וְעֵשָׂו נָטַל עוֹלָם הַזֶּה. וְאוּלָם יַעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ ע״ה בִּיקֵּשׁ לֵישֵׁב בְּשַׁלְוָה גַּם בָּעוֹלָם הַזֶּה, דְּסָבַר בְּדַעְתּוֹ, כִּי אַף שֶׁאָמְנָם עִיקַּר הַכֹּל הוּא הָעוֹלָם הַבָּא, וְאִישׁ יִשְׂרָאֵל אֵין צָרִיךְ כְּלָל אֶת הָעוֹלָם הַזֶּה וַהֲנָאוֹתָיו הַגַּשְׁמִיִּים, אַךְ רְצוֹנוֹ הָיָה לַעֲבוֹד אֶת ה׳ גַּם בְּעִנְיְנֵי הָעוֹלָם הַזֶּה, שֶׁאֶפְשָׁר לְיַיחֲדָם כּוּלָּם לַעֲבוֹד אֶת ה׳, כַּיָּדוּעַ עִנְיַן ״בְּכָל דְּרָכֶיךָ דָעֵהוּ״ (משלי ג, ו ובשו״ע סימן רל״א), שֶׁאִם בִּזְמַן שֶׁעוֹסְקִים בַּגַּשְׁמִיּוּת מְכַוְּונִים בְּמַחְשָׁבָה לַעֲשׂוֹת בָּזֶה רְצוֹן הַבּוֹרֵא, אֲזַי נִמְצָא שֶׁגַּם הַגַּשְׁמִיּוּת הוּא כְּרוּחָנִיּוֹת כַּיָּדוּעַ. וּבְאוֹפֶן כָּזֶה נִמְצָא שֶׁגַּם עִנְיְינֵי הָעוֹלָם הַזֶּה, אֵינָם נִכְלָלִים בִּכְלַל הָעוֹלָם הַזֶּה שֶׁשַּׁיָּיךְ לְעֵשָׂו, אֶלָּא הוּא כְּחֵלֶק מִן הָעוֹלָם הַבָּא אֲשֶׁר נָטַל יַעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ ע״ה בְּחֶלְקוֹ.
  1. Yalkut Shimoni §110. ↩
  2. Mishlei 3:6; Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 231. ↩
In shortYaakov's portion was the World to Come, yet he served through this world too, since physical things done for the Creator join that portion.
6That is what Chazal meant by “Yaakov Avinu sought to dwell in tranquility.” Certainly Yaakov did not want to enjoy the tranquility of this world, for the holy Torah testifies about him, “And Yaakov was a wholesome man, dwelling in tents.”10 He kept apart from the pleasures of this world and had no connection to them at all. Chazal mean, rather, that he sought to serve the Creator not only through spiritual things, which belong to “the World to Come,” but also through physical things, which belong to “this world,” and to do so in tranquility.
וְזֶה מַה שֶׁאָמְרוּ רז״ל בִּיקֵּשׁ יַעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ ע״ה לֵישֵׁב בְּשַׁלְוָה, וְזֶה וַדַּאי שֶׁאֵין הַכַּוָּונָה שֶׁיַּעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ ע״ה רָצָה לֵהָנוֹת מִשַּׁלְוַות הָעוֹלָם הַזֶּה, שֶׁהֲרֵי הַתּוֹרָה הַקְּדוֹשָׁה מְעִידָה עָלָיו (בראשית כה, כז) ״וְיַעֲקֹב אִישׁ תָּם יוֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים״, שֶׁהָיָה פָּרוּשׁ וּמוּבְדָּל מֵהֲנָאוֹת הָעוֹלָם הַזֶּה, וְלֹא הָיָה לוֹ שׁוּם שַׁיָּיכוּת לָהֶם כְּלָל, אַךְ הַכַּוָּונָה בָּזֶה הִיא, שֶׁבִּיקֵּשׁ שֶׁיּוּכַל לַעֲבוֹד הַבּוֹרֵא לֹא רַק בִּדְבָרִים הָרוּחָנִיִּים שֶׁהֵם בְּחִינַת ׳עוֹלָם הַבָּא׳, אֶלָּא בִּיקֵּשׁ לַעֲבוֹד ה׳ גַּם בִּדְבָרִים הַגַּשְׁמִיִּים שֶׁהֵם בְּחִינַת ׳עוֹלָם הַזֶּה׳, וּמִתּוֹךְ שַׁלְוָה.
  1. Bereishis 25:27. ↩
In shortThe tranquility Yaakov sought was not worldly pleasure, from which he stood wholly apart, but peaceful avodas Hashem through physical things too.
7We do find this in Yaakov Avinu's own words: “And of all that You give me, I will surely give a tenth to You.”11 He meant: everything, even physical things, I will dedicate to Your service. What is more, the Torah testifies about him, “And Yaakov came whole,” and Chazal explain, “whole in his wealth.”12 The Torah is telling us that he reached the highest perfection in avodas Hashem, even in physical matters and money.
וּבֶאֱמֶת כֵּן מָצִינוּ בּוֹ בְּיַעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ ע״ה שֶׁאָמַר (בראשית כח, כב) ״וְכֹל אֲשֶׁר תִּתֶּן לִי עַשֵּׂר אֲעַשְּׂרֶנּוּ לָךְ״, הַיְינוּ שֶׁאֶת כָּל הַדְּבָרִים וְאַף עִנְיְינֵי הַגַּשְׁמִיּוּת אֲיַיחֵד לַעֲבוֹדָתֶךָ, וּמָה גַּם אַחַר שֶׁהַתּוֹרָה מְעִידָה עָלָיו (בראשית לג, יח) ״וַיָּבֹא יַעֲקֹב שָׁלֵם״ וְאָמְרוּ חז״ל (שבת לג, ב) ׳שָׁלֵם בְּמָמוֹנוֹ׳, וְהַכַּוָּונָה שֶׁבָּאָה הַתּוֹרָה לְהָעִיד עָלָיו שֶׁהִגִּיעַ לְתַכְלִית הַשְּׁלֵימוּת בַּעֲבוֹדַת הַבּוֹרֵא, גַּם בְּעִנְיְנֵי גַּשְׁמִיּוּת וּמָמוֹן.
  1. Bereishis 28:22. ↩
  2. Bereishis 33:18; Shabbos 33b. ↩
In shortHis vow to tithe everything, and the Torah's word that he was “whole in his wealth,” show Yaakov served perfectly even through money.
8But Heaven showed him that this is not the way, and that it is better to serve Hashem through spiritual things alone, because serving through physical things in this world makes it very easy to stumble and come, Heaven forbid, to sin. This is what Chazal meant: “The Holy One, blessed be He, said: Is it not enough for the tzaddikim … that they also seek to dwell in tranquility in this world?” The tzaddikim seek to serve Hashem through physical things, the matters of this world, as well, as Yaakov wished to, and through this a person can, Heaven forbid, stumble. That is why Hashem asked, “Is what awaits them in the World to Come not enough for the tzaddikim?” He meant that it is better for them to serve Hashem only through spiritual things, which belong to the World to Come. [As for Chazal's saying that this came about through the trouble of Yosef: Yosef's story took place several years after Yaakov arrived in Shechem “whole in his wealth.” Even so, Heaven held Yaakov back from this path (for every branch that comes out later in time is already present in its root). Heaven showed him that involvement in worldly things could bring some blemish and a great trial upon his sons, as we find happened to Yosef, and as will be explained below.]
אָמְנָם מִן הַשָּׁמַיִם הֶרְאוּ לוֹ שֶׁאֵין הַדֶּרֶךְ כָּךְ, אֶלָּא יוֹתֵר טוֹב לַעֲבוֹד אֶת ה׳ בְּעִנְיָינִים הָרוּחָנִיִּים בִּלְבַד, מִשּׁוּם שֶׁעַל יְדֵי עֲבוֹדָה בִּדְבָרִים גַּשְׁמִיִּים בָּעוֹלָם הַזֶּה, נָקֵל מְאוֹד לְהִכָּשֵׁל וְלָבֹא לִידֵי חֵטְא ח״ו. וְזֶהוּ שֶׁאָמְרוּ רז״ל, ׳אָמַר הקב״ה, לֹא דַּיָּין לַצַּדִּיקִים וְכוּ׳ אֶלָּא שֶׁמְּבַקְּשִׁים לֵישֵׁב בְּשַׁלְוָה בָּעוֹלָם הַזֶּה׳, הַיְינוּ שֶׁהַצַּדִּיקִים מְבַקְּשִׁים לַעֲבוֹד אֶת ה׳ גַּם עַל יְדֵי גַּשְׁמִיּוּת וְעִנְיְנֵי הָעוֹלָם הַזֶּה כַּנִּזְכָּר, וְעַל יְדֵי זֶה אֶפְשָׁר לִיכָּשֵׁל ח״ו, לָכֵן ׳אָמַר הקב״ה לֹא דַּיָּין לַצַּדִּיקִים מַה שֶׁמְּתוּקָּן לָהֶם לָעוֹלָם הַבָּא׳, הַיְינוּ שֶׁמּוּטָב לָהֶם לַעֲבוֹד ה׳ רַק עַל יְדֵי עִנְיְנֵי רוּחָנִיּוֹת בְּחִינַת עוֹלָם הַבָּא. [וּמַה שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר שֶׁהָיָה זֶה מֵחֲמַת רוֹגְזוֹ שֶׁל יוֹסֵף, הֲגַם שֶׁמַּעֲשֵׂה יוֹסֵף הָיָה לְאַחַר כַּמָּה שָׁנִים מֵעֵת שֶׁהִגִּיעַ שָׁלֵם בְּמָמוֹנוֹ לִשְׁכֶם, מִכָּל מָקוֹם מִן הַשָּׁמַיִם מְנָעוּהוּ לֵילֵךְ בְּדֶרֶךְ זֶה, (כי כל ענף היוצא לאחר זמן כבר נמצא בשורש), וְהֶרְאוּ לוֹ שֶׁעַל יְדֵי הָעֵסֶק בְּעִנְיְנֵי הָעוֹלָם יָכוֹל לָבוֹא לִידֵי אֵיזֶה פְּגָם וְנִסָּיוֹן גָּדוֹל בְּבָנָיו, כְּמוֹ שֶׁמָּצִינוּ שֶׁנִּגְרַם לְיוֹסֵף וּכְמוֹ שֶׁיְּבוֹאַר לְהַלָּן].
In shortHeaven showed Yaakov that serving through physical things easily leads to sin and could bring a trial on his sons, as later happened to Yosef.
9This is what the verse means by “And Yaakov settled in the land of his father's sojournings (megurei aviv).” Yaakov Avinu took his father's middah, the character trait called “the Fear of Yitzchak,” upon himself and rooted it within him.13 Yitzchak was always afraid of sin, and Yaakov took it upon himself not to occupy himself with physical things. This is the meaning of megurei aviv: the fear and awe that marked his father Yitzchak.14 [On this reading, “Yaakov sought to dwell in tranquility” means that he only sought to do so, at the time when he was “whole in his wealth.” In practice he did not, but dwelt in the land like a sojourner, one who deals with his wealth only as much as he needs to live; the Ramban explains that megurei comes from ger, a sojourner. This was the way of Yitzchak: though he had great wealth, he did not benefit from it (he was blind, and a blind man is like the dead),15 and he did not occupy himself with the things of this world.]
וְעַל זֶה הָעִנְיָן אָמַר הַכָּתוּב ״וַיֵּשֶׁב יַעֲקֹב בְּאֶרֶץ מְגוּרֵי אָבִיו״, שֶׁיַּעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ ע״ה קִיבֵּל וְהִשְׁרִישׁ בְּעַצְמוֹ הַמִּידָּה שֶׁל אָבִיו, ׳פַּחַד יִצְחָק׳ (עיין בזוהר ח״א קפ, א. ובפנים יפות, ובדגל מחנה אפרים), שֶׁהָיָה מְפַחֵד תָּמִיד מִן הַחֵטְא, וְקִיבֵּל בְּעַצְמוֹ לְבַל יִתְעַסֵּק בַּגַּשְׁמִיּוּת, וְזֶהוּ ׳מְגוּרֵי אָבִיו׳, הַיְינוּ הַפַּחַד וְהַמּוֹרָא כְּמִידַּת יִצְחָק אָבִיו. [וּלְפִי זֶה בִּיקֵּשׁ יַעֲקֹב לֵישֵׁב בְּשַׁלְוָה, הַיְינוּ שֶׁרַק בִּיקֵּשׁ לַעֲשׂוֹת כֵּן בִּהְיוֹתוֹ שָׁלֵם בְּמָמוֹנוֹ, אַךְ לְמַעֲשֶׂה לֹא עָשָׂה כֵּן וַיֵּשֶׁב כְּגֵר בָּאָרֶץ (כמבואר ברמב״ן שלשון מגורי הוא מלשון גר), שֶׁאֵינוֹ מִתְעַסֵּק בְּמָמוֹנוֹ אֶלָּא כְּדֵי מִחְיָתוֹ, וְזֶה הָיָה דַּרְכּוֹ שֶׁל יִצְחָק שֶׁאַף שֶׁהָיָה לוֹ עוֹשֶׁר רַב וְגָדוֹל, לֹא נֶהֱנָה מִזֶּה (שהיה סומא כמת) וְלֹא הִתְעַסֵּק בְּעִנְיְנֵי עוֹלָם הַזֶּה].
  1. Bereishis 31:42; see Zohar I 180a, Panim Yafos and Degel Machaneh Efraim. ↩
  2. Megurei is read here as coming from magor, “fear,” as in magor misaviv, “terror all around” (Yirmiyahu 6:25). ↩
  3. See Nedarim 64b. ↩
In short“His father's sojournings” means Yitzchak's fear of sin: Yaakov lived like a sojourner, using his wealth only for his needs, as Yitzchak did.
10This is what Chazal said about Yosef HaTzaddik: “The image of his father's face appeared to him.”16 The holy sefer Divrei Yechezkel of Shinova explains it along these lines.17 Yosef's way was to curl his hair, attending to his looks,18 which means that he occupied himself with physical things and meant to serve the Creator through them too. But after the episode with Potiphar's wife, he saw and understood that this trial had come because he had been occupied with physical things. Then “the image of his father's face appeared to him.” The words “appeared to him” are used as in “I see the words of Admon,” where “see” means that a view seems right in one's eyes.19 In other words, Yosef accepted and agreed with his father's way: one must serve Hashem only through spiritual things and not occupy oneself with the physical, unlike what he himself had done at first, when he curled his hair.
וְזֶהוּ שֶׁאָמְרוּ חז״ל (סוטה לו, ב) אֵצֶל יוֹסֵף הַצַּדִּיק, נִרְאֲתָה לוֹ דְּמוּת דְּיוֹקְנוֹ שֶׁל אָבִיו. וְעַל דֶּרֶךְ שֶׁפֵּירֵשׁ בָּזֶה בְּסֵפֶר הַקָּדוֹשׁ דִּבְרֵי יְחֶזְקֵאל (פרשת וישב ד״ה ויהי ע״ש), דְּהַכַּוָּונָה כִּי יוֹסֵף הָיָה דַּרְכּוֹ שֶׁהָיָה מְסַלְסֵל בִּשְׂעָרוֹ (בראשית רבה פז, ג), וְהַיְינוּ שֶׁעָסַק בְּעִנְיְינֵי גַּשְׁמִיּוּת, וְהָיָה מִתְכַּוֵּון לַעֲבוֹד אֶת הַבּוֹרֵא גַּם בָּזֶה. אֲבָל לְאַחַר מַעֲשֶׂה פּוֹטִיפַר, רָאָה וְהֵבִין, שֶׁמֵּחֲמַת שֶׁהָיָה עוֹסֵק בְּעִנְיְנֵי גַּשְׁמִיּוּת בָּא הַנִּסָּיוֹן הַזֶּה, אֲזַי ׳נִרְאֲתָה לוֹ דְּיוֹקְנוֹ שֶׁל אָבִיו׳, ׳נִרְאֲתָה לוֹ׳ הוּא עַל דֶּרֶךְ שֶׁמָּצִינוּ ׳רוֹאֶה׳ אֲנִי אֶת דִּבְרֵי אַדְמוֹן (כתובות קח, ב) שֶׁעִנְיָינוֹ שֶׁהוּטַב בְּעֵינָיו הַשִּׁיטָה, דְּהַיְינוּ שֶׁקִּיבֵּל וְהִסְכִּים עִם דַּרְכּוֹ שֶׁל אָבִיו, שֶׁצָּרִיךְ לַעֲבוֹד אֶת הַשֵּׁם יִתְבָּרַךְ רַק בְּעִנְיְינֵי רוּחָנִיּוֹת וְלֹא לַעֲסוֹק בַּגַּשְׁמִיּוּת, כְּפִי שֶׁעָשָׂה בַּתְּחִילָּה שֶׁהָיָה מְסַלְסֵל בִּשְׂעָרוֹ כַּנִּזְכָּר.
  1. Sotah 36b. ↩
  2. Divrei Yechezkel, Vayeishev, s.v. Vayehi. ↩
  3. Bereishis Rabbah 87:3. ↩
  4. Kesubos 108b. Admon was one of the judges in Jerusalem; where Admon disagreed with the Sages, Rabban Gamliel said, “I see the words of Admon.” ↩
In shortWhen “his father's face appeared” to Yosef, he came to agree with Yaakov's way, seeing that his care for physical things had brought his trial.
11We can read this idea into Chazal's words, “Yaakov sought to dwell in tranquility, and the trouble of Yosef sprang upon him.” As we explained, Heaven answered Yaakov Avinu that involvement in physical things makes it easy to stumble. That is the meaning of “the trouble of Yosef sprang upon him”: we find this very thing with Yosef, whom it brought to a trial. The Midrash's wording, “the satan of Yosef,” is precise as well. Through the tranquility in this world that Yaakov sought, the satan can come, and the satan is the yetzer hara. When a person is busy with physical things, the yetzer hara brings him to a trial, and he can easily stumble, as we find with Yosef.
וְיֵשׁ לְהַעֲמִיס כֵּן בְּדִבְרֵי חז״ל, בִּיקֵּשׁ יַעֲקֹב לֵישֵׁב בְּשַׁלְוָה ׳קָפַץ עָלָיו רוֹגְזוֹ שֶׁל יוֹסֵף׳, וּכְמוֹ שֶׁבֵּיאַרְנוּ שֶׁמִּן הַשָּׁמַיִם הֵשִׁיבוּ לְיַעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ ע״ה שֶׁעַל יְדֵי הָעֵסֶק בִּדְבָרִים גַּשְׁמִיִּים בְּנָקֵל לְהִכָּשֵׁל, וְזֶהוּ הַמְּכוּוָּן בְּאוֹמְרָם ז״ל ׳קָפַץ עָלָיו רוֹגְזוֹ שֶׁל יוֹסֵף׳, הַיְינוּ שֶׁעִנְיַן זֶה מָצִינוּ אֵצֶל יוֹסֵף שֶׁבָּא עַל יְדֵי זֶה לִידֵי נִסָּיוֹן. וּלְפִי זֶה גַּם יְדוּקְדַּק לְשׁוֹן הַמִּדְרָשׁ ׳שְׂטָנוֹ שֶׁל יוֹסֵף׳, הַיְינוּ שֶׁעַל יְדֵי הַשַּׁלְוָה בָּעוֹלָם הַזֶּה אֲשֶׁר בִּיקֵּשׁ, יָכוֹל לָבֹא בְּחִינַת שָׂטָן, שֶׁהוּא יֵצֶר הָרַע, שֶׁהָעוֹסֵק בַּגַּשְׁמִיּוּת מְבִיאוֹ הַיֵּצֶר לִידֵי נִסָּיוֹן וְיָכוֹל בְּקַל לְהִכָּשֵׁל, וְכַאֲשֶׁר מָצִינוּ בְּיוֹסֵף.
In short“The trouble of Yosef” and “the satan of Yosef” both name the trial by the yetzer hara that physical involvement invites.
12The point is this. For himself, Yaakov Avinu was certainly on a level where he could serve Hashem even through physical things without stumbling; he was, as we saw, “whole in his wealth.” But the holy Avos, as is well known, served Hashem not only for their own perfection and their own time. They meant to prepare the path for the generations, to show it to them and make it straight, in the sense of “the deeds of the fathers are a sign for the children” and of “Go out and pave the way before your children.”20 Not every mind can bear this path through the physical, though, and it does not suit the generations to come. So Yaakov Avinu did not want to walk this narrow, delicate path. He served Hashem with simple wholeheartedness, without occupying himself with physical things.
וְהָעִנְיָן הוּא, כִּי אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁלְּעַצְמוֹ בְּוַדַּאי הָיָה יַעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ ע״ה בְּמַדְרֵיגָה זֹאת, שֶׁהָיָה יָכוֹל לַעֲבוֹד אֶת ה׳ גַּם בְּעִנְיְינֵי גַּשְׁמִיּוּת בְּלֹא לְהִיכָּשֵׁל, וְכַנִּזְכָּר לְעֵיל שֶׁהָיָה בִּבְחִינַת ׳שָׁלֵם בְּמָמוֹנוֹ׳, אֲבָל כֵּיוָן שֶׁכַּיָּדוּעַ הָאָבוֹת הַקְּדוֹשִׁים עָבְדוּ אֶת ה׳ לֹא רַק לְהַשְׁלָמַת עַצְמָם וְלִשְׁעָתָם, אֶלָּא בִּכְדֵי לְהָכִין לְהַרְאוֹת וּלְיַישֵּׁר הַדֶּרֶךְ לְדוֹרוֹת, בִּבְחִינַת מַעֲשֵׂה אָבוֹת סִימָן לְבָנִים (עיין סוטה לד, א), צֵא וּכְבוֹשׁ אֶת הַדֶּרֶךְ לִפְנֵי בָּנֶיךָ (בראשית רבה מ, ח), וְכֵיוָן שֶׁהַדֶּרֶךְ הַזֶּה לָאו כָּל מוֹחָא סָבִיל דָּא, וְאֵינֶנּוּ רָאוּי לַדּוֹרוֹת הַבָּאִים, לָכֵן לֹא רָצָה יַעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ ע״ה לָלֶכֶת בַּדֶּרֶךְ הַדַּק הַזֶּה, אֶלָּא עָבַד ה׳ בִּתְמִימוּת בְּלִי לַעֲסוֹק בַּגַּשְׁמִיּוּת.
  1. See Sotah 34a; Bereishis Rabbah 40:8 (in standard editions 40:6). ↩
In shortYaakov himself could serve through the physical without stumbling, but since the Avos paved the way for their children, he chose the simple path.
13We too, then, must continue in the ways of our fathers and serve Hashem with simple wholeheartedness, without any changes. We need only keep up the customs we received from our fathers. In this way we will bring near the time of the redemption, which we need so greatly in our days. As the verse says, “And he will return the heart of the fathers to the children.”21 The heart of the fathers will once again be found in the children, so that the children follow their fathers' ways, and through this the redemption will come. So it was in the exile of Egypt. As the Midrash teaches, Israel was redeemed from Egypt in the merit of not changing its names, its language or its dress.22 This is hinted in the verse “And Yaakov came whole”: shalem, “whole” (של״ם), is formed from the first letters of shem, name, lashon, language, and malbush, dress, as the Chasam Sofer notes.23 Through this may we be privileged to see the redemption very soon. Amen, may it be His will.
וְעַל כֵּן גַּם אֲנַחְנוּ צְרִיכִים לְהַמְשִׁיךְ בְּדַרְכֵי אָבוֹת, וְלַעֲבוֹד אֶת ה׳ בִּתְמִימוּת בְּלִי שׁוּם שִׁינּוּיִים, רַק צְרִיכִים לְהַמְשִׁיךְ הַמִּנְהָגִים שֶׁקִּבַּלְנוּ מִפִּי אֲבוֹתֵינוּ. וְעַל יְדֵי זֶה נְקָרֵב אֶת קֵץ הַגְּאוּלָּה, אֲשֶׁר כָּל כָּךְ צְרִיכִים אָנוּ בְּיָמֵינוּ, וּכְמַאֲמַר הַכָּתוּב (מלאכי ג, כד) ״וְהֵשִׁיב לֵב אָבוֹת עַל בָּנִים״, הַיְינוּ שֶׁלֵּב הָאָבוֹת יָשׁוּב לִהְיוֹת גַּם אֵצֶל הַבָּנִים, שֶׁהַבָּנִים יִנְהֲגוּ בְּדַרְכֵי אֲבוֹתֵיהֶם, וְעַל יְדֵי זֶה תָּבוֹא הַגְּאוּלָּה, וּכְמוֹ שֶׁהָיָה בְּגָלוּת מִצְרַיִם, כַּמּוּבָא (פסיקתא זוטרתא שמות ו, ו) שֶׁבַּגָּלוּת מִצְרַיִם נִגְאֲלוּ יִשְׂרָאֵל בִּזְכוּת שֶׁלֹּא שִׁינּוּ אֶת שְׁמָם לְשׁוֹנָם וּלְבוּשָׁם, וְרָמוּז זֹאת בַּכָּתוּב ׳וַיָּבֹא יַעֲקֹב שָׁלֵם׳, של״ם ר״ת שֵׁ׳ם לָ׳שׁוֹן מַ׳לְבּוּשׁ (תורת משה לחת״ס), שֶׁעַל יְדֵי זֶה נִזְכֶּה לִגְאוּלָּה בְּקָרוֹב מַמָּשׁ, אָמֵן כֵּן יְהִי רָצוֹן.
  1. Malachi 3:24. ↩
  2. Pesikta Zutrasa (Lekach Tov), Shemos 6:6. ↩
  3. Toras Moshe. ↩
In shortHolding fast to our fathers' ways and customs, as Israel kept its names, language and dress in Egypt, brings the redemption near.
Takeaway

Yaakov could have served Hashem through the things of this world without stumbling, but he chose his father's fear of sin and lived like a sojourner, because the path through the physical is narrow and easily brings the trials of the yetzer hara, as Yosef learned. We can walk the path Yaakov paved for us: serve Hashem with simple wholeheartedness, take from the world only what we need, and hold fast to the customs of our fathers, which bring the redemption near.

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