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Your Eyes See: Mitzvos without Ulterior Motives

From the Torah ofRav Dovid Matisyohu Rabinowitzהרב דוד מתתיהו בן יחיאל יהושע רבינוביץProfile ›
Bereishis 45:12
וְהִנֵּה עֵינֵיכֶם רֹאוֹת וְעֵינֵי אָחִי בִנְיָמִין כִּי־פִי הַמְדַבֵּר אֲלֵיכֶם
And behold, your eyes see, and the eyes of my brother Binyamin, that it is my mouth that speaks to you.

Rashi: “Your eyes see” my glory, and that I am your brother, for I am circumcised like you; and further, “that it is my mouth that speaks to you” in the Holy Tongue.

1“And behold, your eyes see, and the eyes of my brother Binyamin, that it is my mouth that speaks to you.”1 Why does the verse speak of seeing in connection with speech? Speech is something heard, so the verse should have used the language of hearing. A second question: Rashi writes, “‘And behold, your eyes see’ my glory, and that I am your brother, for I am circumcised like you.” [That is, as Rashi wrote earlier, Yosef showed them that he was circumcised.2] This is truly astonishing. Yosef HaTzaddik was perfect in the trait of Yesod, the holiness of the covenant. How can we say of him something so contrary to that very trait? We must also ask how his being circumcised proves that he is their brother, since the descendants of Yishmael also practice circumcision. And one more point in this verse needs a closer look: why does it mention “the eyes of my brother Binyamin” on their own, apart from “your eyes,” the eyes of the other tribes?
וְהִנֵּה עֵינֵיכֶם רוֹאוֹת וְעֵינֵי אָחִי בִנְיָמִין כִּי פִי הַמְדַבֵּר אֲלֵיכֶם (מה, יב). יֵשׁ לְהָבִין, מַהוּ שֶׁנָּקַט הַכָּתוּב לְשׁוֹן רְאִיָּה כְּלַפֵּי דִּיבּוּר, הֲרֵי דִּיבּוּר הוּא דָּבָר הַנִּשְׁמָע, וְאִם כֵּן הָיָה לוֹ לוֹמַר בִּלְשׁוֹן שְׁמִיעָה. ורש״י ז״ל כָּתַב, וְהִנֵּה עֵינֵיכֶם רוֹאוֹת בִּכְבוֹדִי וְשֶׁאֲנִי אֲחִיכֶם שֶׁאֲנִי מָהוּל כָּכֶם, [וְהַיְינוּ כְּמוֹ שֶׁכָּתַב רש״י לְעֵיל (מה, ד) שֶׁהֶרְאָה לָהֶם שֶׁהוּא מָהוּל]. וְזֹאת יִפָּלֵא מִלְּהָבִין, הֲרֵי יוֹסֵף הַצַּדִּיק הָיָה שָׁלֵם בְּמִידַּת הַיְּסוֹד, וְאֵיךְ יִתָּכֵן לוֹמַר בּוֹ עִנְיָן זֶה שֶׁהוּא הֵיפֶךְ מִמִּידָּתוֹ. גַּם יֵשׁ לְהַקְשׁוֹת, דְּמַה שֶׁהוּא מָהוּל עֲדַיִין אֵינוֹ רְאָיָה שֶׁהוּא אֲחִיהֶם, כִּי הֲרֵי גַּם בְּנֵי יִשְׁמָעֵאל נוֹהֲגִים לָמוּל. עוֹד יֵשׁ לְדַקְדֵּק בָּזֶה הַכָּתוּב, מַדּוּעַ הִזְכִּיר ׳עֵינֵי אָחִי בִנְיָמִין׳ בִּפְנֵי עַצְמוֹ וּ׳עֵינֵיכֶם׳ שֶׁל שְׁבָטִים לְבַדָּם.
  1. Bereishis 45:12. ↩
  2. Rashi on Bereishis 45:4. ↩
In shortWhy “see” a spoken word, how could Yosef show his circumcision, which would not prove kinship anyway, and why are Binyamin's eyes mentioned apart?
2aWe can explain all this as follows. We know the teaching of Chazal: “When Dovid entered the bathhouse and saw himself naked, he said, ‘Woe is me, that I stand naked without a mitzvah!’ But once he remembered the circumcision in his flesh, his mind was set at ease.”3 The holy sefarim explain these words; the Toldos Yaakov Yosef does so, and the sefer Rav Yeivi quotes the explanation in the name of the Baal Shem Tov.4 Dovid HaMelech, they say, was making an honest accounting of how he did his mitzvos. That is the meaning of “he entered the bathhouse”: he went to wash himself clean of ulterior motives in his mitzvos. “He saw himself naked” means that he recognized that he had done all his mitzvos with ulterior motives. When a person does mitzvos with some ulterior motive or out of pride, he is not serving his Creator; he is serving himself. So Dovid saw that he was bare of mitzvos, and he said, “Woe is me, that I stand naked without a mitzvah!” But then he remembered the mitzvah of milah and reflected on it. Every Jew does this mitzvah with no ulterior motive at all, since it is done when he is a baby eight days old. Through this mitzvah Dovid's mind was set at ease.
אָכֵן אֶפְשָׁר לְבָאֵר בְּדֶרֶךְ זֶה. דְּהִנֵּה יָדוּעַ מַה שֶׁאָמְרוּ חז״ל (מנחות מג, ב), בְּשָׁעָה שֶׁנִּכְנַס דָּוִד לְבֵית הַמֶּרְחָץ וְרָאָה עַצְמוֹ עָרוֹם, אָמַר אוֹי לִי שֶׁאֶעֱמוֹד עָרוֹם בְּלֹא מִצְוָה, וְכֵיוָן שֶׁנִּזְכַּר בַּמִּילָה שֶׁבִּבְשָׂרוֹ נִתְיַישְּׁבָה דַּעְתּוֹ. וּפֵירְשׁוּ בַּסְּפָרִים הַקְּדוֹשִׁים (תולדות יעקב יוסף פקודי, ובספר רב ייבי תהלים נ״א הביא זאת בשם הבעש״ט), כִּי דָּוִד הַמֶּלֶךְ ע״ה עָשָׂה חֶשְׁבּוֹן הַנֶּפֶשׁ עַל עֲשִׂיַּית הַמִּצְוֹות, וְזֶהוּ שֶׁנִּכְנַס לְבֵית הַמֶּרְחָץ, לְהַרְחִיץ עַצְמוֹ מִן הַפְּנִיָּיה שֶׁל הַמִּצְוָה, וְרָאָה עַצְמוֹ עָרוֹם, הַיְינוּ שֶׁהִכִּיר בְּכָךְ שֶׁעָשָׂה כָּל הַמִּצְוֹות עִם פְּנִיּוֹת, וּבִזְמַן שֶׁעוֹשִׂים מִצְוֹות עִם אֵיזֶה פְּנִיָּה אוֹ גֵּאוּת, נִמְצָא שֶׁהוּא אֵינוֹ עוֹבֵד אֶת בּוֹרְאוֹ אֶלָּא עוֹבֵד אֶת עַצְמוֹ, וְעַל כֵּן רָאָה שֶׁהוּא עָרוֹם מִן הַמִּצְוֹות, אָמַר אוֹי לִי שֶׁאֶעֱמוֹד עָרוֹם בְּלֹא מִצְוָה, אֲבָל כֵּיוָן שֶׁנִּזְכַּר וְהִתְבּוֹנֵן בְּמִצְוַת מִילָה, שֶׁזּוֹ הַמִּצְוָה כָּל אִישׁ יִשְׂרָאֵל עוֹשֶׂה בְּלִי שׁוּם פְּנִיּוֹת, כֵּיוָן שֶׁנַּעֲשֵׂית הַמִּצְוָה בִּהְיוֹתוֹ קָטָן בֶּן שְׁמוֹנָה יָמִים, נִתְיַישְּׁבָה דַּעְתּוֹ בְּזוֹ הַמִּצְוָה.
  1. Menachos 43b. ↩
  2. Toldos Yaakov Yosef, Pekudei; Rav Yeivi, Tehillim 51. ↩
2bThis also lets us properly understand the blessing “Just as he has entered the covenant, so may he enter into Torah …,” said at a bris milah. We are praying that just as this little child was privileged to do the mitzvah of milah without ulterior motives, so may he be privileged to do all the other mitzvos in the same way, without any ulterior motive, “to Hashem alone.”5
וּבָזֶה יֵשׁ לְפָרֵשׁ לְנָכוֹן מַה שֶׁמְּבָרְכִים בִּבְרִית מִילָה ׳כְּשֵׁם שֶׁנִּכְנַס לַבְּרִית כֵּן יִכָּנֵס לַתּוֹרָה׳ וְכוּ׳, הַיְינוּ שֶׁאָנוּ מִתְפַּלְּלִים שֶׁכְּשֵׁם שֶׁזָּכָה קָטָן זֶה לַעֲשׂוֹת מִצְוַת מִילָה בְּלִי פְּנִיּוֹת, כֵּן בָּזֶה הָאוֹפֶן יִזְכֶּה לַעֲשׂוֹת כָּל יֶתֶר הַמִּצְוֹות בְּלִי שׁוּם פְּנִיָּה, בִּלְתִּי לַה׳ לְבַדּוֹ.
  1. Shemos 22:19. ↩
In shortDovid saw ulterior motives in all his mitzvos until he recalled milah, which every Jew does without any; the bris blessing asks this for every mitzvah.
3As is well known, the sale of Yosef came about because the tribes judged him according to Torah law. They reckoned that he had become liable to this punishment, as the commentators, such as the Sforno, explain.6 But they had an ulterior motive in this, as it is written, “And his brothers saw that their father loved him more than all his brothers …,” and “his brothers were jealous of him.”7 That caused the holy tribes to stumble on a point of halachah, and they did not judge him properly. So now, when Yosef made himself known to his brothers, he came to rebuke them for the ulterior motive they had had when they sold him. He told them to look at the mitzvah of milah and learn from it: when a Jew does a mitzvah, he must check carefully that he is not doing it out of ulterior motives. This is the meaning of Rashi's words “he showed them that he was circumcised.” Rashi does not mean that they saw it in the plain sense; it is like the saying “I see the words of Admon,” meaning “I agree with them.”8 In other words, Yosef told them to reflect on the mitzvah of milah and learn from it that the mitzvos must be fulfilled like milah, without any ulterior motives at all.
וְהִנֵּה יָדוּעַ שֶׁעִנְיַן מְכִירַת יוֹסֵף הָיָה מֵחֲמַת שֶׁדָּנוּ הַשְּׁבָטִים אֶת יוֹסֵף עַל פִּי דִּין תּוֹרָה, שֶׁדִּימּוּ בְּדַעְתָּם שֶׁיּוֹסֵף נִתְחַיֵּיב בְּעוֹנֶשׁ זֶה, כְּמוֹ שֶׁאִיתָא בַּמְּפָרְשִׁים (ספורנו לז, כה), אֲבָל מֵאַחַר וְהָיָה לָהֶם בָּזֶה פְּנִיָּיה, וּכְדִכְתִיב (בראשית לז, ד) ״וַיִּרְאוּ אֶחָיו כִּי אוֹתוֹ אָהַב אֲבִיהֶם מִכָּל אֶחָיו וְכוּ׳, וַיְקַנְאוּ בוֹ אֶחָיו״ (שם, יא), זֶה גָּרַם שֶׁנִּכְשְׁלוּ הַשִּׁבְטֵי יָהּ בִּדְבַר הֲלָכָה, וְלֹא דָּנוּ אוֹתוֹ כַּהוֹגֶן. וְהִנֵּה כָּעֵת בְּעֵת שֶׁנִּתְוַודַּע יוֹסֵף אֶל אֶחָיו, בָּא לְהוֹכִיחָם עַל עִנְיַן הַפְּנִיָּה שֶׁהָיָה לָהֶם בִּשְׁעַת מְכִירָתוֹ, וְאָמַר לָהֶם שֶׁיֵּשׁ לָהֶם לִרְאוֹת וְלִלְמוֹד מִמִּצְוַת מִילָה, שֶׁבִּזְמַן שֶׁאִישׁ יִשְׂרָאֵל עוֹשֶׂה מִצְוָה צָרִיךְ לִבְדּוֹק יָפֶה שֶׁמָּא עוֹשֶׂה הַמִּצְוָה מִתּוֹךְ פְּנִיּוֹת, וְזֶה הַפֵּירוּשׁ ׳הֶרְאָה לָהֶם שֶׁהוּא מָהוּל׳, שֶׁאֵין הַכַּוָּונָה רְאִיָּה כִּפְשׁוּטָהּ, רַק כְּעֵין שֶׁאָמְרוּ רוֹאֶה אֲנִי אֶת דִּבְרֵי אַדְמוֹן (כתובות קח, ב), הַיְינוּ שֶׁאָמַר לָהֶם לְהִתְבּוֹנֵן וְלִלְמוֹד עִנְיָן זֶה מִמִּצְוַת מִילָה, וְלִלְמוֹד מִזֶּה שֶׁקִּיּוּם הַמִּצְוֹות צָרִיךְ לִהְיוֹת כְּמִצְוַת מִילָה בְּלִי שׁוּם פְּנִיּוֹת.
  1. Sforno on Bereishis 37:25. Sforno explains that the brothers regarded Yosef as a rodef, a pursuer who may be put to death to save his intended victim. ↩
  2. Bereishis 37:4; 37:11. ↩
  3. Kesubos 108b. Admon was one of the judges in Jerusalem; where Admon disagreed with the Sages, Rabban Gamliel said, “I see the words of Admon.” ↩
In shortJealousy led the brothers' Torah judgment astray, so Yosef “showed them” milah: every mitzvah must be done, like milah, without ulterior motives.
4This explains why the verse does not use the language of hearing here, but says “and behold, your eyes see”: seeing here means understanding and accepting, as in “I see the words of Admon.” It also explains why Yosef did not include Binyamin with the others. Binyamin had no part in the sale of Yosef, so Yosef said “and behold, your eyes see” only to the other tribes. With Binyamin he did not use the language of seeing [in the verse, “see” belongs to “your eyes” alone].
וּבָזֶה מְיוּשָּׁב מַדּוּעַ לֹא נֶאֱמַר כָּאן לְשׁוֹן שְׁמִיעָה, אֶלָּא וְהִנֵּה עֵינֵיכֶם ׳רוֹאוֹת׳, שֶׁהוּא עִנְיַן הֲבָנָה וְקַבָּלָה כַּנִּזְכָּר. וּבָזֶה מוּבָן גַּם מַדּוּעַ לֹא כָּלַל אֶת בִּנְיָמִין עִמָּהֶם, מֵאַחַר שֶׁבִּנְיָמִין לֹא הָיָה לוֹ חֵלֶק בִּמְכִירַת יוֹסֵף, לְכָךְ רַק אֶל שְׁאָר הַשְּׁבָטִים אָמַר וְהִנֵּה עֵינֵיכֶם רוֹאוֹת, וְאִילּוּ אֵצֶל בִּנְיָמִין לֹא הִזְכִּיר לְשׁוֹן רְאִיָּה.
In short“Seeing” means taking the lesson to heart, so it is said only to the brothers who sold Yosef, not to Binyamin.
5May Hashem grant that we be privileged to do His mitzvos without ulterior motives, solely to give the Creator satisfaction.9 Amen, may it be His will.
יִתֵּן ה׳ שֶׁנִּזְכֶּה לַעֲשׂוֹת מִצְוֹותָיו בְּלִי פְּנִיּוֹת, וְאַךְ לַעֲשׂוֹת נַחַת רוּת לְהַבּוֹרֵא, אָמֵן כֵּן יְהִי רָצוֹן:
  1. So printed (nachas rus); the intended reading is nachas ruach, “satisfaction.” ↩
In shortMay we do Hashem's mitzvos free of ulterior motives, only to give Him satisfaction.
Takeaway

Even Dovid HaMelech, looking honestly at his mitzvos, saw himself “naked,” because a mitzvah done for our own pride or interest serves ourselves rather than our Creator. Our bris, done before we could want anything for ourselves, is the model for every mitzvah, and Yosef's rebuke shows how even a judgment made by Torah law goes wrong when jealousy colors it. So we should check ourselves honestly, and ask to serve Hashem alone.

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