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What Shall I Do: The Blessing from Asiyah

Esav begged, “Have you not reserved a blessing for me?” and Yitzchak only answered, “What shall I do, my son?” Yet when Esav asked, “Is it one blessing that you have?” he blessed him at once. Why did he wait? And why would Yitzchak want to bless Esav at all?

Bereishis 27:37–39
וַיַּעַן יִצְחָק וַיֹּאמֶר לְעֵשָׂו הֵן גְּבִיר שַׂמְתִּיו לָךְ וְאֶת־כָּל־אֶחָיו נָתַתִּי לוֹ לַעֲבָדִים וְדָגָן וְתִירֹשׁ סְמַכְתִּיו וּלְכָה אֵפוֹא מָה אֶעֱשֶׂה בְּנִי וַיֹּאמֶר עֵשָׂו אֶל־אָבִיו הַבְרָכָה אַחַת הִוא־לְךָ אָבִי בָּרֲכֵנִי גַם־אָנִי אָבִי וַיִּשָּׂא עֵשָׂו קֹלוֹ וַיֵּבְךְּ וַיַּעַן יִצְחָק אָבִיו וַיֹּאמֶר אֵלָיו הִנֵּה מִשְׁמַנֵּי הָאָרֶץ יִהְיֶה מוֹשָׁבֶךָ וּמִטַּל הַשָּׁמַיִם מֵעָל
And Yitzchak answered and said to Esav, “Behold, I have made him a lord over you, and all his brothers I have given to him as servants, and with grain and wine I have sustained him; and for you, then, what shall I do, my son?” And Esav said to his father, “Is it one blessing that you have, my father? Bless me, me too, my father!” And Esav raised his voice and wept. And Yitzchak his father answered and said to him, “Behold, of the fat places of the earth shall be your dwelling, and of the dew of heaven from above.”
25Yitzchak's first answer to Esav ends, “… what shall I do, my son?” Only when Esav said, “Is it one blessing that you have, my father? Bless me, me too …,” did Yitzchak bless him: “Behold, of the fat places of the earth ….” Why did Yitzchak wait until Esav said “Is it one blessing,” and not bless him at once, when Esav first said to him, “Have you not reserved a blessing for me?”1 And a second question: at first glance, is it not strange that Yitzchak would want to bless Esav and not Yaakov?
וַיַּעַן יִצְחָק וַיֹּאמֶר לְעֵשָׂו הֵן גְּבִיר שַׂמְתִּיו לָךְ וְאֶת כָּל אֶחָיו נָתַתִּי לוֹ לַעֲבָדִים וְדָגָן וְתִירוֹשׁ סְמַכְתִּיו וּלְכָה אֵפוֹא מָה אֶעֱשֶׂה בְּנִי, וַיֹּאמֶר עֵשָׂו אֶל אָבִיו הַבְרָכָה אַחַת הִיא לְךָ אָבִי בָּרֲכֵנִי גַם אָנִי אָבִי כּוּ', וַיֹּאמֶר אֵלָיו הִנֵּה מִשְׁמַנֵּי אֶרֶץ כּוּ'. וְיֵשׁ לְדַקְדֵּק לָמָּה הִמְתִּין יִצְחָק עַד שֶׁאָמַר עֵשָׂו "הַבְרָכָה אַחַת" כּוּ', וְלֹא בֵּירַךְ אוֹתוֹ מִיָּד כְּשֶׁאָמַר לוֹ עֵשָׂו "הֲלֹא אָצַלְתָּ לִּי בְּרָכָה". גַּם לִכְאוֹרָה כְּמוֹ זָר נֶחְשָׁב שֶׁיִּצְחָק יִרְצֶה לְבָרֵךְ אֶת עֵשָׂו וְלֹא אֶת יַעֲקֹב.
  1. Bereishis 27:36. ↩
In shortWhy did Yitzchak bless Esav only after “Is it one blessing,” not at his first plea, and why would he want to bless Esav, not Yaakov?
26aIn truth, as is well known, Yitzchak wanted to bless Esav with physical blessings and Yaakov with spiritual ones; that already answers our second question. When Esav saw that Yitzchak had blessed Yaakov with the blessing fit for Esav himself, he cried out to his father, “Have you not reserved …?” He meant: Now that you have blessed Yaakov with physical blessings, which flow down from the three worlds of Beriah, Yetzirah and Asiyah, surely the blessing from the world of Atzilus is due to me.2 That is “Have you not atzalta (אצלת), reserved, for me …”: the word speaks of Atzilus (אצילות).
אַךְ הָעִנְיָן, דְּיִצְחָק הָיָה רוֹצֶה לְבָרֵךְ אֶת עֵשָׂו בַּגַּשְׁמִיּוּת וְאֶת יַעֲקֹב בְּרוּחָנִיּוּת כַּיָּדוּעַ, וּכְשֶׁרָאָה עֵשָׂו שֶׁבֵּירַךְ יִצְחָק אֶת יַעֲקֹב בַּבְּרָכָה הָרְאוּיָה לוֹ לְעֵשָׂו, צָוַח וְאָמַר לְאָבִיו "הֲלֹא אָצַלְתָּ כּוּ'", עַכְשָׁיו שֶׁבֵּרַכְתָּ אֶת יַעֲקֹב בַּגַּשְׁמִיּוּת, דְּהַיְינוּ שֶׁהֵם נִשְׁפָּעִים מג' עוֹלָמוֹת עב"י, הֲלֹא בְּרָכָה שֶׁהִיא מֵעוֹלָם אֲצִילוּת מַגִּיעַ לִי, וְזֶהוּ אָצַלְתָּ לִּי וְכוּ'.
  1. Kabbalah speaks of four worlds, from the highest down: Atzilus (emanation), Beriah (creation), Yetzirah (formation) and Asiyah (action). ↩
In shortSeeing his physical blessing given to Yaakov, Esav asked for the blessing of Atzilus, the highest world; atzalta, “reserved,” speaks of Atzilus.
26bHis father answered him, “Behold, I have made him a lord … and all his brothers … and with grain and wine …” Lordship, brothers as servants, grain and wine: these three blessings match the three worlds we named, Beriah, Yetzirah and Asiyah, and with them he was hinting: these three I have given to Yaakov your brother. “And for you, then, what shall I do, my son?”: the blessing with which I will bless you is from the world of Asiyah. Notice the word e'eseh (אעשה), “shall I do”: it speaks of Asiyah (עשיה), the world of action. Then Esav his son said to him, “Is it one blessing that you have, my father?” The words plainly ask whether he has only one blessing; Esav meant them as a claim, that there is still one blessing more: Yaakov has had his blessing from Asiyah too, but even in the physical, in the world of Asiyah, you will find another blessing to bless me too. And at once Yitzchak blessed him with a physical blessing. But when Esav first asked him for a spiritual blessing, with “Have you not reserved …,” Yitzchak paid no attention to his words at all. He gave him no answer to it, acted as though he did not grasp it, and answered, “What shall I do?” That answers our first question. This is easy to understand.
וְהֵשִׁיב לוֹ אָבִיו "הֵן גְּבִיר שַׂמְתִּיו כּוּ' וְכָל אֶחָיו כּוּ' וְדָגָן וְתִירוֹשׁ כּוּ'", רֶמֶז הַשְּׁלֹשָׁה בְּרָכוֹת הוּא נֶגֶד שְׁלֹשָׁה עוֹלָמוֹת הנ"ל נָתַתִּי לְיַעֲקֹב אָחִיךָ, "וּלְךָ אֵפוֹא מָה אֶעֱשֶׂה בְּנִי", פֵּירוּשׁ הִיא הַבְּרָכָה מֵעוֹלָם הָעֲשִׂיָּה שֶׁאֲבָרֵךְ אוֹתְךָ בָּהּ, וְזֶהוּ מַה "אֶעֱשֶׂה" דַּוְוקָא, ר"ל מֵעוֹלָם עֲשִׂיָּה. וְאָמַר לוֹ עֵשָׂו בְּנוֹ "הַבְרָכָה אַחַת הִיא לְךָ אָבִי", פֵּירוּשׁ שֶׁגַּם בַּגַּשְׁמִיּוּת בְּעוֹלָם עֲשִׂיָּה תִּמְצָא עוֹד בְּרָכָה לְבָרְכֵנִי ג"כ, וּמִיָּד בֵּרְכוֹ בְּבִרְכַּת גַּשְׁמִיּוּת, אֲבָל כְּשֶׁאָמַר לוֹ תְּחִילָּה לְבָרְכוֹ בְּבִרְכַּת רוּחָנִיּוּת כנ"ל "הֲלֹא אָצַלְתָּ", לֹא הָיָה פּוֹנֶה כְּלָל לִדְבָרָיו וְלֹא הֵשִׁיב לוֹ כְּלוּם וְעָשָׂה עַצְמוֹ כְּלֹא יְדָעוֹ וְהֵשִׁיב לוֹ "מָה אֶעֱשֶׂה". וק"ל.
In shortYitzchak ignored Esav's plea for Atzilus, answering only “What shall I do,” from Asiyah; asked for one more physical blessing, he blessed him at once.
The maamar as a whole

Why did Yitzchak bless Esav only after “Is it one blessing,” and why would he want to bless Esav at all? As is known, Yitzchak meant to bless Esav with physical blessings and Yaakov with spiritual ones. When Esav saw his own blessing given to Yaakov, blessings that flow from the three worlds of Beriah, Yetzirah and Asiyah, he demanded a higher one: atzalta, “reserved,” speaks of Atzilus. Yitzchak’s answer names three blessings, lordship, servants, and grain and wine, matching the three worlds he had already given Yaakov; and “what shall I do,” e’eseh, points to Asiyah. To the plea for Atzilus he gave no answer at all, acting as though he did not grasp it. Only when Esav asked for one more blessing within the physical did Yitzchak bless him at once.

Takeaway

Esav's cry for the blessing of Atzilus, the highest world, got no answer at all, while his request for one more blessing from Asiyah, the world of action, was granted at once. A blessing goes to the one fit for it: if we want the higher blessings that went to Yaakov, our work is to become fit for them, not to cry out for them.

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