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Take It for Me: Blessings Received for Heaven

Rivkah sends Yaakov to take the blessings, and Yaakov is afraid: Esav is a hairy man and he is smooth, and he might bring a curse on himself. What was the smooth man really afraid of, and how could his mother answer, “Upon me be your curse”?

Bereishis 27:6
וְרִבְקָה אָמְרָה אֶל־יַעֲקֹב בְּנָהּ לֵאמֹר הִנֵּה שָׁמַעְתִּי אֶת־אָבִיךָ מְדַבֵּר אֶל־עֵשָׂו אָחִיךָ לֵאמֹר
And Rivkah said to Yaakov her son, saying, “Behold, I heard your father speaking to Esav your brother, saying …”
22Or “And Rivkah said …” speaks of the Shechinah and her children. The holy Zohar says that the Shechinah is called “Rivkah,” and the people, Bnei Yisrael, are called by the name “Yaakov.” We can explain the verse this way. Yitzchak wanted to bless Esav with physical blessings in this world. But the holy Shechinah is the mother who has compassion on her children Israel; “in all their trouble, she is troubled.”1 She longed greatly for Yitzchak to bless Yaakov in this world too. How could she bear to see the poverty of her people, in distress in this world? So she told Yaakov to go and receive the blessings from Yitzchak.
אוֹ יֹאמַר "וְרִבְקָה אָמְרָה כּוּ'", דְּאִיתָא בַּזּוֹהַר הַקָּדוֹשׁ דְּהַשְּׁכִינָה נִקְרֵאת "רִבְקָה" וְעַם בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל נִקְרָאִים בְּשֵׁם "יַעֲקֹב", וְיֵשׁ לְפָרֵשׁ בְּדֶרֶךְ הַזֶּה, דְּיִצְחָק הָיָה רוֹצֶה לְבָרֵךְ אֶת עֵשָׂו בַּגַּשְׁמִיּוּת בעוה"ז, וְהַשְּׁכִינָה הַקְּדוֹשָׁה הִיא הָאֵם הַמְּרַחֶמֶת עַל בָּנֶיהָ יִשְׂרָאֵל וּבְכָל צָרָתָם לָהּ צָר, וְהָיָה תְּשׁוּקָתָהּ מְאוֹד שֶׁיְּבָרֵךְ יִצְחָק אֶת יַעֲקֹב גַּם בעוה"ז, כִּי הַאֵיךְ תּוּכַל לִרְאוֹת בְּעֳנִי עַמָּהּ בְּצַעַר לָהֶם בעוה"ז, וְלָכֵן אָמְרָה אֶל יַעֲקֹב שֶׁיֵּלֵךְ וִיקַבֵּל הַבְּרָכוֹת מִיִּצְחָק.
  1. Yeshayahu 63:9, where the verse says “He is troubled”; here it is said of the Shechinah. ↩
In shortRivkah is the Shechinah, a mother who cannot bear her children's poverty, so she sends Yaakov, Israel, to receive this world's blessings too.
23Yaakov was very much afraid of being blessed with physical things. He feared that the physical might make him coarse and cut him off, Heaven forbid, from the service of Hashem, blessed be He, as the verse says, “Lest you eat … and your heart grow haughty.”2 So he said to Rivkah his mother, the holy Shechinah: How can I receive the blessings of this world? “Esav is a hairy man”:3 this world suits him, by his nature. He is a man of mixed nature, good and bad jumbled together, who goes the way of his heart; whatever comes to his hand, good or bad, he does not hold himself back from doing it. “But I am a smooth man”: I must be smooth and polished, pure in His service, with no dross or refuse. And perhaps the physical would draw my heart away from His service. “Perhaps my father will feel me”: my Father in Heaven. Yemusheini (ימושני), “will feel me,” means that the Creator will yemashmesh (ימשמש), probe and search, my deeds. “And I will be in his eyes as a deceiver, and I will bring upon myself a curse and not a blessing”: through this blessing a curse will sprout, may it never be.
וְיַעֲקֹב הָיָה מִתְיָרֵא מְאוֹד שֶׁיִּתְבָּרֵךְ בְּעִנְיְנֵי גַּשְׁמִיּוּת, כִּי מוֹרָא עָלָה עַל רֹאשׁוֹ פֶּן וְאוּלַי ע"י הַגַּשְׁמִיּוּת יִתְגַּשֵּׁם וְיוּפְרַד ח"ו מֵעֲבוֹדָתוֹ יִתְבָּרֵךְ, כְּמוֹ שֶׁאָמַר הַכָּתוּב "פֶּן תֹּאכַל כּוּ' וְרָם לְבָבֶךָ", לָזֶה אָמַר אֶל רִבְקָה אִמּוֹ, הִיא הַשְּׁכִינָה הַקְּדוֹשָׁה, הַאֵיךְ אוּכַל לְקַבֵּל בִּרְכוֹת עוה"ז, "הֵן עֵשָׂו אִישׁ שָׂעִיר", ר"ל לוֹ רָאוּי עוה"ז לְפִי מִדָּתוֹ שֶׁהוּא אִישׁ מְעוֹרָב בְּעִרְבּוּבְיָא הוֹלֵךְ בְּדֶרֶךְ לִבּוֹ, וְכָל הַבָּא לְיָדוֹ לֹא יִמְנַע עַצְמוֹ מִלַּעֲשׂוֹת אִם טוֹב וְאִם רָע, אֲבָל "אָנֹכִי אִישׁ חָלָק" ר"ל שֶׁאֲנִי צָרִיךְ לִהְיוֹת חָלָק וּמְצוּחְצַח, צַח בַּעֲבוֹדָתוֹ יִתְבָּרֵךְ וְיִתְעַלֶּה בְּלִי שׁוּם סִיג וּפְסוֹלֶת, וּפֶן וְאוּלַי ח"ו ע"י הַגַּשְׁמִיּוּת יוּמְשַׁךְ לִבִּי מֵעֲבוֹדָתוֹ יִתְבָּרֵךְ כנ"ל, וְ"אוּלַי יְמוּשֵּׁנִי אָבִי" שֶׁבַּשָּׁמַיִם, הַבּוֹרֵא יִתְעַלֶּה יְמַשְׁמֵשׁ וִיפַשְׁפֵּשׁ בְּמַעֲשַׂי "וְהָיִיתִי בְעֵינָיו כִּמְתַעְתֵּעַ וְהֵבֵאתִי עָלַי קְלָלָה וְלֹא בְרָכָה", שע"י זֹאת הַבְּרָכָה יַצְמִיחַ קְלָלָה חָלִילָה וְחָלִילָה.
  1. Devarim 8:12, 14. ↩
  2. Bereishis 27:11–12. ↩
In shortYaakov feared that this world's blessings, fit for Esav's mixed nature, would draw his pure heart from Hashem and turn blessing into curse.
24“His mother said to him,” the holy Shechinah, “Upon me be your curse, my son”:4 it is upon me to guard you from a curse. “Only listen to my voice, and go take for me”: receive the blessings of this world as well, so that they will be “for me,” that is, for His service, for His great Name. In all the matters of this world, eating, drinking and every other physical thing, let your intent be only for the sake of Heaven: to bring out the holy sparks, the fragments of holiness scattered in the world, from within the food as you eat in holiness and purity, and to have strength to serve Him, blessed be He, and to occupy yourself with His Torah and His mitzvos. So too in everything, let your intent be for Heaven. “He went, and took, and brought to his mother”5 explains itself: he did as the Shechinah commanded and received the blessings in this way, for the sake of His great Name. May He be blessed and exalted, and may His remembrance endure forever and to all eternity. Amen.
"וַתֹּאמֶר לוֹ אִמּוֹ" הִיא הַשְּׁכִינָה הַקְּדוֹשָׁה, "עָלַי קִלְלָתְךָ בְּנִי", ר"ל עָלַי מוּטָּל לִשְׁמוֹר אוֹתְךָ מִקְּלָלָה, "אַךְ שְׁמַע בְּקוֹלִי וְלֵךְ קַח לִי", ר"ל שֶׁתְּקַבֵּל הַבְּרָכוֹת העוה"ז ג"כ שֶׁיִּהְיֶה "לִי", ר"ל ג"כ לַעֲבוֹדָתוֹ לִשְׁמוֹ הַגָּדוֹל, שֶׁתִּהְיֶה כַּוָּונָתְךָ בְּכָל עִנְיְנֵי עוה"ז, הֵן בַּאֲכִילָה וּשְׁתִיָּה וּשְׁאָר גַּשְׁמִיּוּת, רַק לַשָּׁמַיִם, לְהוֹצִיא נִיצוֹצוֹת קְדוֹשׁוֹת מִתּוֹךְ הַמַּאֲכָל בְּאוֹכְלְךָ בִּקְדוּשָּׁה וּבְטָהֳרָה, וְשֶׁיִּהְיֶה לְךָ כֹּחַ לַעֲבוֹד לוֹ יִתְבָּרֵךְ וְלַעֲסוֹק בְּתוֹרָתוֹ וּבְמִצְוָתוֹ, וְכֵן בְּכָל דָּבָר יִהְיֶה כַּוָּונָתְךָ לַשָּׁמַיִם. "וַיֵּלֶךְ וַיִּקַּח וַיָּבֵא לְאִמּוֹ" מוּבָן מִמֵּילָא, שֶׁעָשָׂה מִצְוַת הַשְּׁכִינָה לְקַבֵּל הַבְּרָכוֹת בָּאוֹפֶן הַזֶּה לִשְׁמוֹ הַגָּדוֹל יִתְבָּרֵךְ וְיִתְעַלֶּה זִכְרוֹ לָעַד וּלְנֵצַח נְצָחִים. אָמֵן.
  1. Bereishis 27:13. ↩
  2. Bereishis 27:14. ↩
In shortTake this world's blessings “for me,” the Shechinah says: eat and live for Heaven, raising the holy sparks, and Yaakov did just that.
The maamar as a whole

Here R’ Elimelech reads the story through the Zohar: Rivkah is the Shechinah and Yaakov is the people of Israel. Yitzchak meant to give this world to Esav, but the Shechinah, a mother troubled in all her children’s troubles, cannot bear to see them poor, so she sends Yaakov to receive this world’s blessings too. Yaakov fears them. This world suits Esav’s mixed nature, while he must stay smooth and pure; the physical might draw his heart from Hashem, his Father in Heaven would search his deeds, and the blessing would sprout a curse. The Shechinah answers: guarding you from the curse is on me; only “take for me.” Receive this world for Heaven’s sake, eating in holiness to raise the sparks and gain strength for Torah and mitzvos. And Yaakov did.

Takeaway

Yaakov himself feared that this world would make him coarse, and the answer he was given was not to refuse its blessings but to take them “for me,” for Hashem. When we eat and drink in holiness, raising the sparks and drawing strength for Torah and mitzvos, the Shechinah says, “Upon me be your curse,” and guards us from it.

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