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Bringing Down Blessing: The Awakening from Below

Yitzchak, the holiest of men, prayed for a child, and the verse says he prayed “opposite his wife.” Why opposite her? And why do Chazal say that children, life and sustenance depend not on merit but on mazal: cannot a tzaddik’s holiness bring them down?

Bereishis 25:21
וַיֶּעְתַּר יִצְחָק לַיהוָה לְנֹכַח אִשְׁתּוֹ כִּי עֲקָרָה הִוא וַיֵּעָתֶר לוֹ יְהוָה וַתַּהַר רִבְקָה אִשְׁתּוֹ
Yitzchak entreated Hashem opposite his wife, for she was barren; and Hashem let Himself be entreated by him, and Rivkah his wife conceived.
5“Yitzchak entreated …” It seems to me that these three, children, life and sustenance, need an awakening from below, a first move made by man: the tzaddik must turn his mind to them as needs of the world, and through this he can bring them down. Without an awakening from below they cannot be brought down, even if he is a tzaddik in all his thoughts and in his holiness to Hashem. Rather, the tzaddik must come down a little from his level and think of them as the world's needs; then they flow down to the world. That is what Chazal said: “Children, life and sustenance do not depend on zechusa, merit.”1 Here zechusa (זכותא) is zakus, purity, written with the same letters: these things do not depend on a person's purity and clarity alone. They depend on mazla, which is the same word as yizal, “flows,” in “Water shall flow from his buckets”:2 on the tzaddik who draws down the flow of blessing, who gives his mind and thought to make children, life and sustenance flow and to draw them down. Mazla (מזלא) has the numerical value of lechem (לחם), bread, which is sustenance,3 and the letters of lechem spell melach (מלח), salt. That is “With all your offerings you shall offer salt.”4 The verse says “with all your offerings,” al kol korbancha: with all that you bring the upper worlds near (mekarev) through your righteousness and holiness, with all this, “takriv, offer, salt”: give your mind to bring near and bring down lechem, bread, which is sustenance.
וַיֶּעְתַּר יִצְחָק כּוּ'. נ"ל דְּהִנֵּה שְׁלֹשָׁה אֵלֶּה - בְּנֵי חַיֵּי וּמְזוֹנֵי - צָרִיךְ אִתְעָרוּתָא דִלְתַתָּא, שֶׁיִּתֵּן הַצַּדִּיק אֶת דַּעְתּוֹ עֲלֵיהֶם שֶׁהֵם צוֹרֶךְ לְעוֹלָם, וְעַל יְדֵי זֶה יוּכַל הַצַּדִּיק לְהַשְׁפִּיעַ אוֹתָם לְעוֹלָם. אֲבָל אִם לֹא יִהְיֶה אִתְעָרוּתָא דִלְתַתָּא, בִּלְתִּי אֶפְשָׁרִי שֶׁיּוּשְׁפְּעוּ לְעוֹלָם, גַּם אִם יִהְיֶה צַדִּיק בְּכָל מַחְשְׁבוֹתָיו וּקְדוּשָּׁתוֹ לַה', כִּי אִם שֶׁצָּרִיךְ הַצַּדִּיק לֵירֵד קְצָת מִמַּדְרֵגָתוֹ לַחְשׁוֹב עֲלֵיהֶם שֶׁהֵם צוֹרְכֵי עוֹלָם אָז הֵם נִשְׁפָּעִים לָעוֹלָם. וְזֶהוּ שֶׁאָמְרוּ חז"ל "בְּנֵי חַיֵּי וּמְזוֹנֵי לָאו בִּזְכוּתָא תַּלְיָא מִילְּתָא", ר"ל לָאו בִּזַכּוּת וּצְלִילוּת שֶׁל אָדָם לְבַד תַּלְיָא מִילְּתָא, אֶלָּא בְּמַזָּלָא לְשׁוֹן "יִזַּל מַיִם מִדָּלְיָו", ר"ל אֶלָּא ע"י הַצַּדִּיק הַמַּמְשִׁיךְ הַשְׁפָּעוֹת שֶׁנּוֹתֵן דַּעְתּוֹ וּמַחֲשַׁבְתּוֹ לְהַזִּיל וּלְהַמְשִׁיךְ אֵלּוּ חַיֵּי בְּנֵי וּמְזוֹנֵי. וְזֶהוּ "עַל כָּל קָרְבָּנְךָ תַּקְרִיב מֶלַח", מַזָּלָא גֵּימַטְרְיָא לֶחֶם דְּהַיְינוּ מְזוֹנֵי, וְ"לֶחֶם" אוֹתִיּוֹת "מֶלַח", וְאָמַר הַכָּתוּב "עַל כָּל קָרְבָּנְךָ" ר"ל בְּכָל זֹאת שֶׁאַתָּה מְקָרֵב אֶת הָעוֹלָמוֹת הָעֶלְיוֹנִים ע"י צִדְקָתְךָ וּקְדוּשָּׁתֶךָ, עַל כָּל זֹאת "תַּקְרִיב מֶלַח" פֵּירוּשׁ תִּתֵּן דַּעְתְּךָ לְהַקְרִיב וּלְהַשְׁפִּיעַ לֶחֶם הַיְינוּ מְזוֹנֵי.
  1. Moed Katan 28a, Rava, who lists them in another order: “Life, children and sustenance do not depend on merit; they depend on mazal.” ↩
  2. Bamidbar 24:7. ↩
  3. Mazla: 40 + 7 + 30 + 1 = 78; lechem: 30 + 8 + 40 = 78. ↩
  4. Vayikra 2:13. ↩
In shortChildren, life and sustenance flow down only when the tzaddik comes down a little to think of the world's needs: the “salt” of every offering.
6All the thoughts of Yitzchak Avinu were holy, wholly for Hashem: for the praise and glory of Hashem, blessed be He. With tzaddikim, even the prayer (tefillah) they pray is called praise (tehillah). It never entered his mind to pray for offspring in the world in the way we described, as a need of the world; all his aims and prayers were for Hashem alone. That is “Yitzchak entreated Hashem lenochach, opposite, his wife”: this was opposed to the thought of “his wife,” who did think with that intention, that offspring are a need of the world. And that is “for she was barren”: it was she, the barren one, who held this thought in mind. “And Hashem let Himself be entreated by him”: Hashem turned Yitzchak's will from his first intention to the intention we described. Vayei'aser, “let Himself be entreated,” is the same word as the eser (עתר), the pitchfork, of Chazal's saying: “Why are the tzaddikim likened to an eser? Just as the pitchfork turns over the grain on the threshing floor …”5 So eser speaks of turning over: Hashem Himself forms the will in the tzaddik. That is “He will do the will of those who fear Him”:6 where the plain sense is that He fulfills their will, here it means that He forms the will in those who fear Him. Then, when Hashem had turned Yitzchak's will so that his intention would be for offspring, “Rivkah his wife conceived”: now he came to know of his wife's conceiving. Before, he had known nothing of the matter at all, for he cleaved to Hashem entirely.
וְהִנֵּה יִצְחָק אָבִינוּ ע"ה הָיָה כָּל מַחְשְׁבוֹתָיו קְדוֹשִׁים כּוּלּוֹ לָה', דְּהַיְינוּ לְשֶׁבַח וְלִתְהִילָּה להשי"ת ב"ה, דְּאֵצֶל הַצַּדִּיקִים גַּם הַתְּפִילָּה שֶׁהֵם מִתְפַּלְּלִים נִקְרָא תְּהִילָּה, וְלֹא הָיָה עוֹלֶה עַל מַחְשַׁבְתּוֹ לְהִתְפַּלֵּל עַל זֶרַע בָּעוֹלָם בְּאוֹפֶן הנ"ל, רַק כָּל מְגַמּוֹתָיו וּתְפִילּוֹתָיו הָיָה לַה' כנ"ל, וְזֶהוּ "וַיֶּעְתַּר יִצְחָק לַה' לְנוֹכַח" ר"ל זֶה הָיָה הִתְנַגְּדוּת לְמַחְשֶׁבֶת "אִשְׁתּוֹ", שֶׁהִיא הָיְתָה חוֹשֶׁבֶת בְּכַוָּונָה הנ"ל שֶׁהַזֶּרַע הוּא צוֹרֶךְ לְעוֹלָם, וְזֶהוּ "כִּי עֲקָרָה הִיא" ר"ל שֶׁהָיְתָה מַעֲלָה הַמַּחֲשָׁבָה הַזֹּאת עַל דַּעְתָּהּ, "וַיֵּעָתֶר לוֹ ה'" פֵּירוּשׁ שהשי"ת הָפַךְ אֶת רְצוֹן יִצְחָק מִכַּוָּונָתוֹ הָרִאשׁוֹנָה לְהַכַּוָּונָה הנ"ל, "וַיֶּעְתַּר" הוּא ע"ד שֶׁאָמְרוּ חז"ל "לָמָּה נִמְשְׁלוּ הַצַּדִּיקִים לְעֶתֶר מַה עֶתֶר מְהַפֵּךְ הַתְּבוּאָה בַּגּוֹרֶן", וְנִמְצָא עֶתֶר הוּא לְשׁוֹן הֶפֶךְ, שהשי"ת עוֹשֶׂה רָצוֹן לְהַצַּדִּיק, וְזֶהוּ "רְצוֹן יְרֵאָיו יַעֲשֶׂה" ר"ל שֶׁעוֹשֶׂה רָצוֹן לִירֵאָיו, וְאָז כַּאֲשֶׁר הָפַךְ ה' אֶת רְצוֹן יִצְחָק שֶׁיִּהְיֶה כַּוָּונָתוֹ עַל הַזֶּרַע כנ"ל, "וַתַּהַר רִבְקָה אִשְׁתּוֹ" ר"ל אָז יָדַע שֶׁהָרְתָה אִשְׁתּוֹ, וְלֹא כֵּן מִתְּחִילָּה לֹא יָדַע מִזֶּה כְּלָל, כִּי הָיָה דָּבוּק כּוּלּוֹ בַּה'.
  1. Yevamos 64a; Sukkah 14a. There the Gemara compares the prayer of tzaddikim to a pitchfork: as it turns the grain over, so their prayer turns Hashem's attributes from anger to mercy. ↩
  2. Tehillim 145:19. ↩
In shortWholly given to Hashem's praise, Yitzchak never prayed for children until Hashem turned his will; only then did he know of Rivkah's conceiving.
7a“The children struggled within her, and she said, ‘If so, why am I (anochi)?’”7 Rivkah knew that her children would receive the holy Torah. And she saw, as Chazal expounded, that when she passed the doorway of a beis haknesses, a house of prayer, Yaakov strained to come out, and at the doorway of a house of idolatry Esav strained to come out.8 She did not know that she had two babies in her womb; she thought it was one, who grew strong at times for good and at times for bad. She was pained and said, “If so”: if this is how my child will be, and if, Heaven forbid, when they receive the holy Torah there will be a mixture of good and bad in them, “why anochi”: why do I need the receiving of the Torah, which opens with Anochi, “I am Hashem”?9 For the holy Torah must be wholly in holiness, with no mixture at all.
"וַיִּתְרוֹצְצוּ הַבָּנִים בְּקִרְבָּהּ וַתֹּאמֶר אִם כֵּן לָמָּה זֶּה אָנֹכִי", דְּהִנֵּה רִבְקָה הָיְתָה יוֹדַעַת שֶׁבָּנֶיהָ יְקַבְּלוּ הַתּוֹרָה הַקְּדוֹשָׁה, וּבִרְאוֹתָהּ כְּשֶׁהָיְתָה עוֹבֶרֶת עַל פֶּתַח בֵּית הַכְּנֶסֶת יַעֲקֹב הָיָה מְפַרְכֵּס לָצֵאת וּבְפֶתַח ע"ז הָיָה עֵשָׂו מְפַרְכֵּס לָצֵאת כְּמוֹ שֶׁדָּרְשׁוּ חז"ל, וְהִיא לֹא הָיְתָה יוֹדַעַת שֶׁזֶּה לָהּ שְׁנֵי עוּבָּרִים בְּמֵעֶיהָ, רַק הָיְתָה סוֹבֶרֶת שֶׁזֶּה עוּבָּר אֶחָד שֶׁהוּא מִתְגַּבֵּר עִיתִּים לְטוֹבָה וְעִיתִּים לְרָעָה, וְהָיְתָה מִצְטַעֶרֶת וְאוֹמֶרֶת "אִם כֵּן" ר"ל אִם חָלִילָה בְּאוֹפֶן זֶה יִהְיֶה בְּנִי, וְחָלִילָה בְּקַבָּלַת הַתּוֹרָה הַקְּדוֹשָׁה יִהְיֶה בָּהֶם תַּעֲרוֹבֶת טוֹב וְרַע, "לָמָּה זֶּה אָנֹכִי", לָמָּה לִי קַבָּלַת הַתּוֹרָה שֶׁפָּתַח בְּ"אָנֹכִי" ה', כִּי הַתּוֹרָה הַקְּדוֹשָׁה צְרִיכָה לִהְיוֹת הַכֹּל בִּקְדוּשָּׁה בְּלִי תַּעֲרוֹבוֹת חָלִילָה.
  1. Bereishis 25:22. ↩
  2. Bereishis Rabbah 63:6, which speaks of “houses of assembly and houses of study”; Rashi on Bereishis 25:22 has “the doors of Torah of Shem and Ever.” ↩
  3. Shemos 20:2. ↩
In shortThinking she carried one child, pulled now to good, now to evil, Rivkah feared he would receive the wholly holy Torah with a mixture in him.
7b“And she went to seek Hashem.” The Gemara says, “A child's talk is either his father's or his mother's,”10 because the parents are partners in him, and each puts his own share into him according to his nature and his level. Rivkah laid the fault on herself, thinking she was the cause. So “she went to seek Hashem,” to repair her share so that the child would be wholly good, for Hashem. “And Hashem said to her, ‘Two nations are in your womb’”:11 one will turn to his wickedness, and the other, wholly, to his righteousness.
"וַתֵּלֶךְ לִדְרוֹשׁ אֶת ה'" דְּאִיתָא בַּגְּמָרָא "שׁוּתָא דְיַנּוּקָא אוֹ דְּאַבָּא אוֹ דְּאִמָּא", וְהוּא מֵחֲמַת שֶׁהֵם שׁוּתָּפִין בּוֹ וְכָל אֶחָד מַכְנִיס בּוֹ חֶלְקוֹ לְפִי מַהוּתוֹ וּמַדְרֵגָתוֹ, וְהָיְתָה תּוֹלָה הַחִסָּרוֹן בְּעַצְמָהּ שֶׁהִיא גּוֹרֶמֶת זֹאת, לָכֵן "וַתֵּלֶךְ לִדְרוֹשׁ אֶת ה'" לְתַקֵּן אֶת חֶלְקָהּ כְּדֵי שֶׁיִּהְיֶה כּוּלּוֹ לְטוֹב לַה', "וַיֹּאמֶר ה' לָהּ שְׁנֵי גוֹיִים בְּבִטְנֵךְ", זֶה יִפְנֶה לְרִשְׁעוֹ וְזֶה לְצִדְקוֹ בִּשְׁלֵימוּת.
  1. Sukkah 56b, a popular saying that Abaye quotes: “The talk of a child in the marketplace is either his father's or his mother's.” ↩
  2. Bereishis 25:23. Compare Rashi there, on “they shall part from your innards”: “this one to his wickedness and that one to his innocence.” ↩
In shortBlaming her own share in the child, Rivkah sought Hashem to repair it, and learned there were two: one bound for wickedness, one wholly righteous.
8This is the meaning of “Satisfy us in the morning with Your kindness.”12 Boker (בקר), “morning,” is the same word as bikur, examination. A korban had to be examined beforehand13 so that there would be an awakening from below. For the root of the korban lay in great deveikus, cleaving to Hashem, in lofty holy intentions, and the examination was there for the sake of the awakening from below. That is what Dovid HaMelech prayed in “Satisfy us in the morning …” A person must think about the needs of the world and bring them to mind; this is the bikur, the examination, of the kindnesses that are needed, for the sake of the awakening from below. Dovid's prayer was: do this will Yourself, as in “He will do the will of those who fear Him”; let the will not come from us, and let us only cleave to You. “And we will sing and rejoice all our days”: the tzaddik who truly serves Hashem repairs another world every single day, and no day is like another. That is “Avraham was old, coming into days”:14 he had many days, for each time he rose and repaired a world higher than the one before. And that is “and we will sing and rejoice all our days”: when we cleave to You with a good cleaving, then “we will sing and rejoice all our days.” Understand this.
וְזֶהוּ "שַׂבְּעֵנוּ בַבֹּקֶר חַסְדֶּךָ", "בּוֹקֶר" הוּא לְשׁוֹן בִּיקּוּר, דְּהַקָּרְבָּן הָיָה צָרִיךְ בִּיקּוּר לְמַעַן תִּהְיֶה אִתְעָרוּתָא דִלְתַתָּא, שֶׁשּׁוֹרֶשׁ הַקָּרְבָּן הָיָה בִּדְבֵיקוּת גָּדוֹל בְּכַוָּונוֹת קְדוֹשִׁים עֶלְיוֹנִים, וְהַבִּיקּוּר הָיָה לְמַעַן אִתְעָרוּתָא דִלְתַתָּא, וְזֶהוּ שֶׁהִתְפַּלֵּל דָּוִד הַמֶּלֶךְ ע"ה "שַׂבְּעֵנוּ בַבּוֹקֶר כּוּ'", ר"ל מַה שֶׁצָּרִיךְ הָאָדָם לַחְשׁוֹב וּלְהַעֲלוֹת עַל דַּעְתּוֹ אֶת צוֹרְכֵי הָעוֹלָם, דְּהַיְינוּ בִּיקּוּר הַחֲסָדִים הַצְּרִיכִין לְמַעַן אִתְעָרוּתָא דִלְתַתָּא, אַתָּה תַּעֲשֶׂה הָרָצוֹן הַזֶּה כנ"ל "רְצוֹן יְרֵאָיו יַעֲשֶׂה", וְלֹא מֵאִתָּנוּ יָבֹא הָרָצוֹן רַק אֲנַחְנוּ נִהְיֶה דְּבוּקִים בְּךָ, "וּנְרַנְּנָה וְנִשְׂמְחָה בְּכָל יָמֵינוּ", דְּהַצַּדִּיק הָעוֹבֵד ה' בֶּאֱמֶת הוּא מְתַקֵּן בְּכָל יוֹם וְיוֹם עוֹלָם אַחֵר, וְאֵין יוֹם אֶחָד דּוֹמֶה לַחֲבֵירוֹ, וְזֶהוּ "וְאַבְרָהָם זָקֵן בָּא בַּיָּמִים", ר"ל שֶׁהָיָה לוֹ יָמִים הַרְבֵּה, שֶׁכָּל פַּעַם עָלָה וְתִיקֵּן עוֹלָם הַגָּבוֹהַּ מֵחֲבֵירוֹ, וְזֶהוּ "וּנְרַנְּנָה וְנִשְׂמְחָה בְּכָל יָמֵינוּ", פֵּירוּשׁ כַּאֲשֶׁר נִהְיֶה דְּבוּקִים בְּךָ בְּדֶבֶק טוֹב אֲזַי "נְרַנְּנָה וְנִשְׂמְחָה בְּכָל יָמֵינוּ". וְהָבֵן.
  1. Tehillim 90:14. The psalm is headed “A prayer of Moshe”; the Gemara says that Dovid wrote the book of Tehillim through ten elders, Moshe among them (Bava Basra 14b). ↩
  2. An animal was examined for blemishes before it was offered; the Mishnah speaks of “examined lambs” kept ready in the Chamber of Lambs (Mishnah Arachin 2:5). ↩
  3. Bereishis 24:1. ↩
In shortDovid prayed that Hashem Himself plant in us the thought of the world's needs, so we can stay cleaving to Him, repairing a higher world each day.
The maamar as a whole

R’ Elimelech teaches that children, life and sustenance need an awakening from below: the tzaddik must come down a little from his level and think of them as the world’s needs, for holiness alone will not bring them. So Chazal say they depend not on zechusa, purity, but on mazla, the flow drawn down by one who gives his mind to it. Yitzchak, wholly cleaving to Hashem, never thought to pray this way; Rivkah did. So Hashem turned his will, as a pitchfork turns grain, and only then did he know she had conceived. Rivkah, feeling one child pulled to good and to evil, feared a mixture in those who would receive the Torah, and sought Hashem to repair her share. Dovid asks Hashem to place that will in us Himself, so we can keep cleaving to Him and rise higher each day.

Takeaway

Bringing blessing down for others takes a step down from our own heights: we must give real thought to what people need. Rather than lose our deveikus over it, we can ask Hashem to place that will in us, as He turned Yitzchak's will, and keep cleaving to Him, rising higher each day.

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