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Sarah's Joy: Nothing Is a Wonder to Hashem

Hashem asks, “Why did Sarah laugh?” and then, “Is anything too wondrous for Hashem?” If her laughter was joy over the miracle done for her, what was wrong with it? Why would Hashem find fault with a woman rejoicing at His kindness?

Bereishis 18:12
וַתִּצְחַק שָׂרָה בְּקִרְבָּהּ לֵאמֹר אַחֲרֵי בְלֹתִי הָיְתָה־לִּי עֶדְנָה וַאדֹנִי זָקֵן
And Sarah laughed within herself, saying, “After I have withered, delight has come to me! And my lord is old.”
21aOr “And Sarah laughed” may teach a lesson about marveling. The tzaddik must sanctify himself so much, and come so to recognize the wonders and great deeds of the Creator, blessed be He, that he reaches a level where even if he sees some wonder, it does not strike him as a great novelty. Set against the wonders of the Creator, Who has it in His power to do wonder upon wonder, more and more without end, it is nothing new. So when a person marvels at some wonder as a great novelty, he diminishes the praise of the Omnipresent. This is in the spirit of Chazal's words, “Have you finished your Master's praise?”, with their parable of a king who had a million gold dinars and was praised for silver ones.1
אוֹ יֹאמַר "וַתִּצְחַק שָׂרָה" דְּהָעִנְיָן הוּא כָּךְ, שֶׁהַצַּדִּיק צָרִיךְ לְקַדֵּשׁ עַצְמוֹ כ"כ וּלְהַכִּיר נִפְלָאוֹת וּגְדוֹלוֹת הַבּוֹרֵא ב"ה, עַד שֶׁיָּבוֹא לְמַדְרֵיגָה כָּזוֹ שֶׁגַּם אִם יִרְאֶה אֵיזֶה פֶּלֶא, לֹא יַפְלִיא בְּעֵינָיו לְחִידּוּשׁ גָּדוֹל נֶגֶד נִפְלָאוֹת הַבּוֹרֵא יִתְעַלֶּה שֶׁבְּיָדוֹ לַעֲשׂוֹת פִּלְאֵי פְּלָאוֹת יוֹתֵר וְיוֹתֵר אֵין קֵץ, וְנִמְצָא מַה שֶׁיִּתְפַּלֵּא הָאָדָם עַל אֵיזֶה פֶּלֶא שֶׁהוּא חִידּוּשׁ גָּדוֹל בְּעֵינָיו, הוּא מִיעוּט קִילּוּס הַמָּקוֹם ב"ה, ע"ד שֶׁאָמְרוּ חז"ל סַיֵּימְתִּינְהוּ לִשְׁבָחָא דְּמָרָא מָשָׁל לְמֶלֶךְ שֶׁמְּקַלְּסִין אוֹתוֹ כּוּ',
  1. Berachos 33b. R' Chanina said this to a man who led the prayer and added praise upon praise to “the great, the mighty and the awesome God.” The parable ends: “Is that not a disgrace to him?” ↩
In shortA tzaddik who knows Hashem's endless wonders is not astonished by any one of them; marveling at a miracle as a great novelty diminishes His praise.
21bThat is “And Sarah laughed”: the word speaks of joy. She was rejoicing over the greatness of the wonder Hashem had done for her, “after I have withered …” “And Hashem said, ‘Why is it that Sarah laughed, saying, Shall I truly give birth?’” Why does this seem such a novelty and great wonder in her eyes? “Is anything too wondrous for Hashem?”:2 is there anything that could be a wonder against My power, when I can do greater and greater wonders? Sarah was afraid that Avraham would think she had been laughing and mocking, since tzachakah, “laughed,” can speak not only of joy but also of jest and mockery. Therefore “Sarah denied it, saying, ‘I did not laugh,’ for she was afraid”: that is, she meant, “In my eyes it was not mockery.” And that was the truth; she had only been rejoicing over the greatness of the wonder done for her. “And Avraham said, ‘No, but you did laugh’”:3 even the joy you felt counts as laughter and mockery, Heaven forbid. For this is no novelty before Him, blessed be He, and it is as though one had said, “Have you finished your Master's praise?” It is not the right way for a tzaddik to marvel like this. This is easy to understand.
וְזֶהוּ "וַתִּצְחַק שָׂרָה", פֵּירוּשׁ לְשׁוֹן שִׂמְחָה, שֶׁהָיְתָה מְשַׂמַּחַת עַל גּוֹדֶל הַפֶּלֶא שֶׁעָשָׂה לָהּ השי"ת ב"ה דְּהַיְינוּ "אַחֲרֵי בְלוֹתִי כּוּ'", "וַיֹּאמֶר ה' לָמָּה זֶּה צָחֲקָה שָׂרָה לֵאמֹר הַאַף אֻמְנָם אֵלֵד", פֵּירוּשׁ מַה זֶה חִידּוּשׁ וּפֶלֶא גָּדוֹל בְּעֵינֶיהָ הַדָּבָר הַזֶּה, "הֲיִפָּלֵא מֵה' דָּבָר", ר"ל וְכִי יֵשׁ לְךָ דָּבָר שֶׁיְּהֵא פֶּלֶא לְנֶגֶד כֹּחִי שֶׁיֵּשׁ בְּיָדִי לַעֲשׂוֹת נִפְלָאוֹת גְּדוֹלוֹת יוֹתֵר וְיוֹתֵר, וְשָׂרָה הָיְתָה יְרֵאָה שֶׁלֹּא יְהֵא סוֹבֵר אַבְרָהָם שֶׁהִיא הָיְתָה מְשַׂחֶקֶת וּמְהַתֶּלֶת, דְּצָחֲקָה הוּא ג"כ לְשׁוֹן שְׂחוֹק וְהִיתּוּל, לָכֵן "וַתְּכַחֵשׁ שָׂרָה לֵאמֹר לֹא צָחַקְתִּי כִּי יָרֵאָה", דְּהַיְינוּ שֶׁלֹּא הָיָה לִשְׂחוֹק בְּעֵינַי, וְהָאֱמֶת כֵּן הָיָה, רַק שֶׁהָיְתָה מְשַׂמַּחַת עַל גּוֹדֶל הַפֶּלֶא שֶׁנַּעֲשָׂה לָהּ כנ"ל, "וַיֹּאמֶר אַבְרָהָם לֹא כִּי צָחָקְתְּ", ר"ל גַּם הַשִּׂמְחָה שֶׁהָיִית מְשַׂמַּחַת, נֶחְשָׁב לִשְׂחוֹק וְהִיתּוּל ח"ו, כִּי אֵין זֶה חִידּוּשׁ לְפָנָיו יִתְבָּרֵךְ וּכְאִילּוּ סַיֵּימְתִּינְהוּ לִשְׁבָחָא דְּמָרָא, וְאֵין זֶה דֶּרֶךְ הַנָּכוֹן לְהַצַּדִּיק שֶׁיִּתְפַּלֵּא כנ"ל. וק"ל.
  1. Bereishis 18:13–14. ↩
  2. Bereishis 18:15, where the verse has only “And he said.” ↩
In shortSarah's joy over her miracle was itself the fault: to marvel at it as a great wonder diminished Hashem's praise, so Avraham told her it still counted as laughter.
The maamar as a whole

R’ Elimelech offers a second reading of Sarah’s laughter. A tzaddik must come to know Hashem’s wonders so deeply that no single wonder strikes him as a great novelty, for He can do wonder upon wonder without end; to marvel at one as astonishing diminishes His praise, as Chazal said to the man who heaped up praises, “Have you finished your Master’s praise?” Sarah’s laughter was joy over the wonder done for her. Hashem asked why it seemed such a wonder in her eyes: “Is anything too wondrous for Hashem?” She denied mocking, and truly she had only rejoiced; but Avraham answered that even this joy counted as laughter, for before Hashem it is no novelty.

Takeaway

The more we come to know Hashem's greatness, the less any one of His kindnesses will look to us like a surprise. When He does great things for us, we can thank Him without treating them as novelties, for to Him nothing is too wondrous.

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